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Originally Posted by Amalgam
(Post 3281099)
Correct me if I’m wrong, but isn’t it considered more or less acceptable to point out somebody’s weight in Japan?
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This is so sad, but this is a worldwide problem. People like pick on body 'flaws' and physical appearance basically. And under the mask of 'freedom of speech', it is always more or less acceptable to just say whatever you want on someone elses appearance. If only the people who comment on such things, think before they post: 'what if somebody picked on me, because I gained - lost - have this condition - not feeling my best - whatever', I hope that prevents them from posting.
I am wandering a bit offtopic by this paragraph:
I love instagram, but my looks never hit a mark or whatever and I am not that interesting for insta-famous. In other words; I haven't had the experience of online negative or hate comments (even tho I have endured those for 10 years offline). But I follow mostly girls, and whether they are fit or 'proud to be curvy' it is never enough. You have to be either A or B. I follow a curvy girl, who sings about 'Thick Girls', mukbangs for entertainment and yet hits the gym, or has diets in order to stay healthy and people comment on her staying not true to her 'brand', because apparantly when you work out, you are not a proud curvy girl. A fit girl who I follow is being shamed of fake or plastic surgery.
It is a real shame that people have nothing else but bring others down by commenting on their physical appearance.
Online may be easier than in real life, to have the audicity so tell someone such things. Do these people know no shame? We all want ourselves to stop bullying in offline environments, but when it is ok to tell whoever what you think about his or her physical appearance online, the bullying will never stop.
As for Ayu, she looks great and she sung really well. I don't know what the standard is she has to meet, for me there is none. It is sad that people pick on those things, which should't be an issue. Hopefully she reads the sea of positive comments as well and don't pay attention to the weight comments.
It is ridiculous.
Ok I am done with my essay. I woke up early this morning, so I have rattled maybe too much haha.