Ayu dating Pei?
 

What really bothers me is how fast some people around here jumps in to question her mental health over the most trivial stuff.

Imagine excusing sexual abuse of teenagers who aren't mature enough to enter sexual relationships with adults and who are, on top of that, dependent on the adult in every aspect when it comes to their future career and their finances. Imagine excusing an adult fucking a teen when they should be mentoring the teen instead.
Imagine typing so much predatory shit out and actually pretending it's just about two adults having sex. Just wow

How old is he? If he is of legal age then I do not see what the problem is. Maybe if some ppl would judge her and her relationships a lot less, then maybe y'all would be as happy as Ayu too.

And I honestly don't think age is huge deal based on my experience... Swear to God, y'all ppl sometimes act as if this is a new thing... It's 2019 and not 1957. If Ayu was a man then I have feeling this won't be much of big deal for a lot of y'all. Let her do whatever (or whomever lol jk) she wants.

As for me, I'm just waiting for new music. Lol.

Go Ayu! Excuse her for having a personal life people.

Now I’m confused on how old this guy is. :shrug :shrug

One of my extended family members is in a relationship with a huge age gap. They are 25 and their partner is 53. They've been together for a long time and the whole family approves of this relationship. I guess because of that I see no issue with Ayu dating someone in their 20s. We don't know the circumstances, I just hope it is all above board and doesn't turn into a fiasco like the whole Maro saga. I just want her to be happy in the end.

This is the real question. When will she release something new?! :D

He's 20, but according to the rumours they started dating when he was 19, which is legally underage in Japan.

Looking forward to the new release(s) that must coincide with this new coupling.

I wish Ayu would get some good girlfriends that can set up Ayu with a man with his own success and not someone in Ayu's pocket already.

And who said that they are dating? And who said that they are monogamous? Maybe they are only having fun and that's all, we can't assume anything.

This too. Also as a professional dancer, there's 90% chance he's gay anyway.

Now imagine if Pei and Lee are hooking up. My gay fantasies would be fulfilled

I'm glad she has a boyfriend. Hopefully, they'll stick together for a long time.

LOVE again - the return - ??

all of this.

Offtopic - but I'm loving it :roflmao

The most problematic thing here is his work ethic, or lack of lol. Less than two years into work and you're already dating the boss? I don't think he's gonna have much a career afterwards. The last time we saw Maro he was eating grass, as far as we know.

And yes, it's getting the media's attention. https://www.cyzo.com/2019/07/post_210665_entry.html
https://news.merumo.ne.jp/article/genre/8845723
https://www.excite.co.jp/news/article/Real_Live_47516/

Ayu is a real human and she need someone near her. To date with someone from her team is the most easy way. I don't think it's something serious, I was sure ayu's dating KO before.

How much you need to work to date with boss? %)

"LOVE, yet again"

I am still waiting for Return road (A)gain

I feel like "LOVE, once again" or "LOVE, one more time" sound way better but still the same feeling lol

So, they broke up and he officially "failed the audition" and left?

Who knows. I was really surprised when he left after new audition, he's talented maybe more than someone who stayed

Yes, it seemed very odd.

I met KO at a gay bar. He was all over a male friend. Not saying he’s one or the other, but just mentioning it lol.

Haters must be pleased. They've been saying for years that she's making headlines not because of her music, but because of her messy private life.
Did you talk or observe?

I said hi, as he was talking to my friend lol

Zooming in on her super-reflective glasses, I don't see reflections of paparazzi or other camera people. It looks like she is looking at another building? I wonder if this is taken from someone's personal security camera.

It looks like she is holding his wrist and not really his hand. Could be wrong though.

Don't want her to date Pei.

I have to agree here. He's an up-and-comer dating the biggest selling solo artist in Japanese history. Ayu is clearly in a position of power here, and I don't think this relationship is appropriate as long as he continues to work for her. I don't have any reservations about special treatment, but I do when it comes to the image fans and the media have of someone like Pei dating someone so high-profile. It smears their character, making them out to be a gold digger or a user.

He's waaay too young to be in this relationship. And Ayu should know better. And you guys should all know better too. It's no less risky or predatory when a woman dates a male subordinate than when a man dates a female subordinate. His entire career could be ruined by how Ayu handles things if they go sour. And I think it's clear, based on Ayu's two marriages, that she doesn't handle breakups and divorces very well at all.

Come on, Ayu, get out and meet someone with more financial and career independence. There are businessmen and investors and socialites and all sorts of other people with wealth and status all over that would be on more equal footing. Dating your employee is just ridiculous for someone in your position.

what if hes gay and Ayu is just being close to him like she do with Timmy :rolleyes

we wouldnt know until she confirms it

I don’t remember ever hearing rumors of her dating Timmy, do you? This has been floating around for a while now and I have to agree, this age/power dynamic is NOT a good look for her.

It’s inappropriate. Especially if she’s his boss and on her payroll. That’s a universal understanding no matter what country you’re from on the planet. It’s not okay. Plus she’s setting a bad example to her subordinates on her team (dancers, managers, band mates, etc) and at Avex. I don’t think her management nor the label steps in regarding her love life because she’s.....not as high of a ticket anymore in that it wouldn’t make that much of a difference to her career. Verses if it were like back in the late ‘90s to early ‘00s.

There were rumors about Timmy as well. They were photographed together.

Five years, I believe :yes

I’m sorry, I couldn’t resist :laugh

When I was 20, I had moved to another country, I was the supervisor in a clothing store and I was trying to become pregnant. I was an adult person making adult decisions. At 23, I'm now a mother and have bought my first house.

I don't agree at all to the "teen" and "power" comments. He's a big boy and he can make his own decisions.

As for the "dating the boss" thing... Well, we see American actors dating their co-stars all the time, so why shouldn't that happen in music? I don't know how much ayu is the boss of them all - I would believe she's more just part of the team. Also, how many other people do ayu actually meet, other than those she's the boss of? It would be sad if she should let a potential romance down just because they're working together - especially when it's probably limited how much time she spends with people who are not her coworkers. Also, it would be great for her to have someone she could actually "live in" with. If she finds someone outside her team, they'd probably not see each other very often.

And it it's dangerous for his career.. Well, it's his own choice.

People like you are an exception, not a rule.
Co-star isn't a boss.
Regardless, ayu can do whatever she wants. It's her choice and her consequences.

Hmmmm.... the impossible love, the hiding, the secrecy, the public not understanding. It sounds all so very interesting. It makes for a good album and interesting lyrics. Isn’t this ultimately what the public wants.

I mean, at the end of the day if it’s legal, there isn’t much to say. We can all push our own bias, but it’s not gonna change much. I see both sides arguments and both have their merits. The only thing I can hope is that Ayu has a good head on her shoulders and will successfully navigate life with the decisions she’s made.

The fact that ayu didn't say anything about it at her TA blog may means that it's just rumors.

Maybe he's an exception too? But even if I'm very mature of my age, I still believe the average 20-year-old is old enough to decide who they are dating.

I know... But as I mentioned - how much of a "boss" is she really? Of course, she is the top of the cake, but she still works with them side by side. Unless it's a "come in to my office tonight and I'll give you a raise", I don't see the problem lol.

I guess I just think the "don't date your boss" thing is old school. People should basically date whoever they want, as long as it's legal and they're not hurting anyone.

^Yeap. There will be 65 years old smart people entering bad relationships even being experienced. There will be young people entering healthy relationships even with of their lack of experience and maturity. There's no one size fits all on this kind of stuff.

A younger person can even be the abuse part of the relationship with an older person.

I don't know, I think I'm kinda speechless about her relationships and choices after that LA model...

this is why her dancers should be gay like the good ol gang with Gomi and Shu-ya

I feel like its been 100 years since I have seen a post from you! I still remember reading a post where you explained your username lol

Shuya's gay??

Maybe they're just having fun together but aren't really serious...?

Every ayu male dancer is gay.

Until she dates them and they become straight porn stars.

Ugh, her power

Excuse me, don’t you mean, “straight for pay”?
Guys Ayu is a certified MILF and she has grown up like us. She can date whomever she wants, at least we are guaranteed a mini album soon!

You mean another playlist?
"Netflix & chill selection".

May be interlude playlist :no

omg thank you!! I didn't log in anymore because there wasn't anything interesting in Ayu's life anymore, much less new music, but I'm back now for the book scandal and MILF-boi scandal.

ahh but when do we get to see her with a woman. Take the plunge babe.


That guy has nice hair though. Seems he has nice...a lot of things looool

^ emiiiii! Lots of old faces popping up

But seriously though :o

aww faiza I see you all the time....I just never comment or like anything cause im lazy ;__; <3

summertime ayu drama

Honestly, I never really imagined her settling with one person for 50 million years. But you never know. Besides, who doesn't like young hot guys? hahaha

I gotta post here after seeing emi and waterballoon posting here haha.

Not really interested in ayu's new bf or that book scandal (though it is interesting to read that thread :P).

...except that the "M" in "MILF" stands for "mother". Unless there's some kid we don't know about, by definition she's not a MILF. CERTIFICATE REVOKED! :-)

(yes, I'm pedantic in this way) :-p

It’s not old school. It’s common sense, especially in the western world. It’s frowned upon for bosses to date subordinates because: 1.) they’re paying them 2). It’s a conflict of interest 3). It looks bad to other employees because it appears the boss is playing favorites when they actually are. Whether it’s intentional or not 4). Someone ALWAYS gets hurt. Whether it’s the boss, that employee they’re dating, another employee(s), boss/employee’s family, etc. 5). It’s bad for business. Not only is the boss and employee distracted, but it hurts both of their job performances and leads to bad business.
Also a 20 year old here state side is seen as immature to be married and have children because typically they are. I won’t even get into it all since this is all waaay off topic. Yes Ayu can do whatever she wants and I’m totally cool with that. I don’t even care if she dates an employee. I however wanted to point that misconception out about dating bosses. I know from personal experience

When you all say Ayu is the BOSS it sounds like she works in an old traditional conservative company dealing with paperwork and boring stuff everyday lol Is not like she is the owner of a company and he's the intern. People do date in the work environment all the time and, we've seen singers dating theirs dancers/staff all the time. They spend more time with their crew/co-workers than with "regular people" so it happens. What's the big deal? Just get over the age thing, if you guys didn't noticed we're in 2019! Hope she enjoys her vacation!

If anything she's more of the boss than in a traditional company, where there's more mitigating factors at play. You piss off your girlfriend who is the star of the show and you're a dancer? Much easier for you to be out of a job.

Wow! i haven't been keeping up with Ayu's news for a while
I thought she was still married and tbh i don't care much about her personal relationships and just knowing that she's happy is enough for me and i hope this guy is mature enough and can handle the pressure this relationship with Ayu might bring his way.

Lol now I feel like I have to make an appearance.

Also cool with judging the fuck out of 40yo adults, male or female, dating a 20yo. Gross. Somehow I'm not surprised, though.

Why y'all pretending like you wouldn't date Ayu if you were in the same situation.

Please marry me, girl.

Why would you want a marriage that would maybe last a year? :dead2

Hahaha oh snap

It'd be longer than my first marriage. :roflmao:

Who's Pei????

LOVE again...hope this will forever or I'm gonna release a new album like Party Queen.

Party Queen is my favorite album, so I hope she breaks up already and give me Party Queen 2- I am still partying, bitches

Emiko and Waterballoon whaaaaat. Is it 2010?? Heyyyy

I don’t know what to think about her dating a 20yo guy, but also never cared who she lets in her vagina, you know?? Her public imagine is burned to a crisp, more than the teepee in Midsommar, so maybe she has no fucks left to give.

Best comment.