Those incidents are very old. I'm speaking of her recently. But
if she knew that Kevin and Shar were together when she began talking to him, then she is indeed in the wrong. And she didn't command her dog to go on the designer dress just to make the owners upset. It was an accident. And did she not really apologize? I don't recall reading that she didn't apologize. And thinking that she'd
go out of her way to hurt her
kids is a crazy thought to have.
She may be deemed an unfit mother but she definitely doesn't
try to hurt her children.
She doesn't go out her way to be a bad person, but you're going out of your way to make her look like one.