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Originally Posted by LacusClyne
i see your point, ayu will be worried hearing this, and the last thing she needs is stress/pressure. She work too hard.
but have you thought that this person might not be trying to put stress on ayu...
see, normally when someone loses hope and want to commit suicide, it could means that they don't have anyone to talk too, or can't talk to. Sometimes, it's hard to open your heart, moreover to someone you know.
The more you know the person, the hardly it is to say your feelings and problems, there a lot of of reasons(don't want to burden/your problems is link to them/you don't trust them....)
If the suicide message is posted by him/her, the person might feel that TA is the only place where he/she can voice out his/her thoughts. To certain people, Ayu is not just a singer, she's an guardian angel. Her lyrics are trueful and Ayu's is an understanding person, not those hyporites like most adults are.
It's more like.....'At least i still have ayu' thing.
i wonder if anyone understand this meaning....it's a little hard to say in words, but i had come from that stage before.
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Well...I do understand where you're coming from and it's great that her TA can rely on her...but I think there's such a thing as relying on Ayu too much. From now on, there's nothing Ayu can do for this person, so it'd be terrible for the news to reach her he did commit suicide.
If he didn't and was saved by Ayu's blog. That's great...but what if there's a next time?
I've also had thoughts like this at least twice in my life. But I would never be able to tell someone like Ayu, I've always known it's better to go see a professional about such matters, which is what the TA member should have done in my opinion...