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Originally Posted by blackmage
Not having read everyone's posts, but I would think the negativity if at all comes from as a fan, caring about Ayu as most of us do, we are worried. No matter how smart we know she is, I think these feelings are normal given the circumstances. Most whirlwind romances hardly ever last for so many reasons. Now don't twist what I'm saying, I don't necessarily mean this in Ayu's case. That remains to be seen. Sure once processed, I am very happy for Ayu. Everyone should be happy that Ayu has found love as everyone should be happy when someone they know finds love. The thing though is in situations like this when we know the person directly, we play devil's advocate. Its out duty to right? We want what is best for that person. To make sure the one they love will treat them the best in all aspects of the relationship) as they deserve. Though obviously this is completely different because its a Fan/idol relationship and not a friend/friend.
All the years some of us have been listening to Ayu, we know a lot about her; of her. We care about her, so we just want to make sure this is the best though we cannot clearly state that to her in the best way. So I don't necessarily find it bad to question things especially with this being very new and still kind of unexpected announcement. Whether you agree or disagree with the whole situation, I think its still best to be respectful of each others opinions
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This.
I didn't feel particulary happy about the wedding and very shocked. And not because of any selfish reasons, the only reason is that I don't want Ayu to get hurt. That would be horrible to me. It's unfair to say that people who aren't crying tears of joy for Ayu, should just grow up.
Anyway, I'm kind of happy for her now. I guess I've come around. Some small part of me will always doubt the decision to marry that fast, but Ayu being happy right now is the most important thing. I really find it admirable to live in the here and now. I think Ayu doesn't think about the future a lot, that what she said in her interview with Talk Asia. And that's wonderful, it's an amazing character strength to live the moment! (I'm unable to do it and always worry about the future. I want to be like that, but it's impossible, I guess.)