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Originally Posted by InoriNoUta
And I don't, because I don't think it's fair to the women who DON'T have these feelings, as it implies they are unnatural and therefore somehow wrong and flawed. No one says a man is "unnatural" for not wanting to be a father -- or, if they do, they definitely aren't the majority -- so why should a woman get that kind of crap?
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If you've studied science you know that via evolution women who had the desire to have children were the ones who had children and thus passed on this characteristic to their offspring, and those who did not have that characteristic did not survive, and through millions of years of evolution, women have been naturally programmed to have children and keep the species alive, its not being discriminant against women who do not want children, since no matter how much time passes there will always be women who do not want children, but the grand majority, and yes the norm, is for women to want children, not because of sexism or anything but because its their instinct that has been implanted in them. Men however do not necessarily feel the need to have children because they have mainly evolved to hunt and get food, I.E. their job, men are concerned with their job, that is why if a man does not have a solid job or good money they reach their mid life crisis because they feel they have failed to accomplish their life goal (their instinctive goal). That is why it is normal for women to have children, not wanting to do so isn't wrong, its simply not the norm of evolution and society. I'm not saying Ayu will have a baby, I'm hoping she doesn't because that would mean a slow down in her activities.