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Anyone who says they weren't surprised is NOT automatically a bad person or a bad fan. Please! Some of us are just rational. She was with Nagase for 7 YEARS and didn't marry him; you really think we were gonna be excited and confident when she married a foreigner (who isn't planning on moving to Japan) after 4 months? Come on!
Yeah, there may be such a thing as love at first sight, but even that kind of love requires nurturing and time to grow. Ayu always seems like such a smart, exacting woman...to hear she had something like a shotgun wedding just blew my mind. Why couldn't they wait until they had figured out their life together first? What was the big frikkin' hurry? I do not believe that Ayu ever seriously planned to drop her Jpop career and live in LA. I trust her words, but I don't think she put enough thought into her actions. I don't know either of them personally, and I don't want to act like I do, but I and everyone else is entitled to make a judgement. That's what Ayu and every other celebrity accepted when they became celebrities. And just like I would be honest with a friend, I'm being honest with Ayu (although she can't hear me) because I respect her.
So stop making this some lame fan competition about who's the most supportive and proper. Everyone here is disappointed in this news, and no one wants to see Ayu suffer. I sincerely hope that she had an AIRTIGHT prenuptial agreement.
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"One runs the risk of weeping a little, when one lets himself be tamed."
-Antoine de Saint Exupery, The Little Prince
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