[SunshineSlayer]

Honestly, I'm not surprised. I feel sorry for her, but at the same time from the moment I realized they wouldn't be living together, I thought this was inevitable. If you aren't willing to actually live with your husband(or he to move to Japan and live with his wife) then obviously something is very wrong there. If you truly love someone, where you live is not that big of an issue. And honestly he would have had a much better chance at success living and working in Tokyo anyways.

I know its cliche, but they rushed into this waaaay to fast. Getting married but not being able to agree to living together is just crazy. The only way that would remotely make sense is if both parties had a severe financial strain on them that made it impossible to relocate, but that was obviously not the case here.