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Originally Posted by RayJason
The fair amount of people I was referring to, were the guys who hated Mannie's guts so much, like trolling around saying how hairy, what a golddigger he was and stupid he is. And now they're like "everyone is so stupid, everyone is overreacting, get a grip everyone". I used to be one of the people who had no exact feeling about him (sure disgusted when his photobook leaked), I usually fought off the anti-Mannie trolls, but this is so disrespectful that it stained my positive feelings towards him and at the same time, it made me change from perspective, entirely.
But yeah, I'm not in the position (which I don't even want to be in) to change people their view on this. It's actually up to you whatever you want to believe. I see it like this (WARNING: exaggerated, because AHS loves it like that):
A. It's (probably) intended as joke, and you realize that many people will interpret it (which is super logical) as being offensive. (There's a (HIGH) chance that he's talking about ayu, and if he does he's offending her. Nobody likes to be called a psycho, especially by someone who you have been in a relationship with for a year.) or
B. It's just a joke, it's normal to call your exes (people who you have been intimate with, shared pain and love with and in this case where married to) psycho. What the hell; etiquettes, manners and respect? LOL We're not fricking living in the 1930's anymore. People who take this funny joke too seriously are idiots and need to be re-schooled.
aka, I find it weird that people are protecting Mannie, even guessing and blaming that ayu is a psycho. There's no one who can guarantee that he's talking about ayu, but there's also no one who can confirm that this isn't about ayu. The way the post is formulated clearly makes it look like the psycho is ayu in my opinion, since he was married to her and no one else.
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Which is why it makes me facepalm reading this thread. We don't know Mannie's intentions with the joke, if it was completely unrelated to Ayu, and if it was related, whether it was meant maliciously or jokingly. Neither do we know whether Ayu herself would take offense. We don't personally know Mannie or the details of his relationship with Ayu, so to take a look at this post and immediately assume he is a jerk, he didn't really love Ayu, their relationship was a sham, etc, is a waste of time. Unless you can guarantee or even give moderate evidence of his intentions, then calling him names or accusing him of bad deeds will only make
you look like the bad one.
And don't misunderstand me, I don't mean to insult anyone, but the way some people see this as some kind of right to attack Mannie (like the way people assume
he attacked
Ayu) gives a bad feeling in my stomach. Please show some more respect, Ayu herself also asked before that fans would not hound Mannie about the divorce.