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Why does any of this matter in the first place???
Logically speaking, you can't "love" anyone enough to marry them and actually stay together after meeting on the set of a music video. I could see it if Ayu and Mannie actually dated for a few years after filming some of the videos from 'Love songs,' but they didn't. They barely even knew each other, so of course some of their behaviors might have come off as bizarre or even psychopathic after marriage. Their transition from attraction to marriage was too quick for them to even develop a real, mature understanding of one another. Therefore, all of this is all a bunch of immature foolishness. ALL of this. This thread, the constant bickering, the harassment of Ayumi and her ex-husband---ALL of this is ridiculous.
Furthermore, if he is calling Ayumi a psychopath then SO WHAT? He has a right to hold an opinion of her just like any other fan or non-fan has of Ayumi Hamasaki (the celebrity entertainer AND the person). Some people need to stop being so freaking insecure about their fan appreciation for Ayumi by not letting the words of others question her integrity as an artist and a human being all of the time. She is going on fourteen years of being in the music industry. FOURTEEN YEARS. If she was really a "psychopath" we would have real evidence from her actions, not from a measly facebook post that might not even be saying that she was a "psycho."
As for the defensive friend of Mannie, if he has to resort to using racial stereotypes to defend his argument, nothing he says should be thought of as relevant to understanding the situation at all. He is probably an associate looking to add more fuel to the fire more than anything else because he provides no evidence of how long he and Mannie have been friends, or even anything about Mannie's character.
The bottom line is, don't be so quick to believe the hype and if in doubt about everything, just listen to "Party Queen" and have a good day regardless. =)
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