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Originally Posted by Chibi-Chan
I don't want to start a discussion but I think I have to say this. Back then I never had any problems with porn and had nothing against it and would also just laugh. But related to my studies I had to focus on that topic (and also prostitution) because of a seminar paper.
To sum it up: more than 90% of those women who are porn actresses or prostitutes "by choice" were sexually abused in their childhood or raped in their teens. Because those women never learned something else then that they are nothing more than garbage to men they tend to become victims in the future too. (For the case someone's not believing this number just write me a PM and I give you links to sources which confirm this. Then you could decide for yourself if those sources are reliable or not)
The problem is that we are so to say brought up with porn and prostitution and everyone is telling us those women do this by choice just for money to buy nice things or even for fun, but sadly that's not the case. I read a lot about this topic and the living conditions those women are in. Afterwards I couldn't sleep for over a week because of nightmares. **** is better treated than those women.
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I wasn't talking about the "dark shadows", shall we say, of porn, I actually learned a lot about that in school. But, not everyone knows about that, and the negative aspect of watching porn, for most people, comes from the fact that its just considered "perverted". From my experience, all the guys I've met like watching porn, even when they have girlfriends. I'm not speaking for all guys, of course and I'm also sure that most of the guys I've met don't really know what goes on in the "stars" lives. I just never got why girls seem so surprised and offended by guys liking porn, when most guys, especially those who are in their teens to early twenties, don't really mean any harm by it, its mostly hormones. I'm not blind to the conditions of the porn industry or think that all porn addictions are innocent. But, I don't think that the guys, at least the ones I've met, think when they are watching porn "Oh, yay! Time to watch the abused girls do derogatory things for money!". They just want... "release". Porn has some stuff that plays to the guy's fantasies that maybe they can't do with wives/girlfriends.
My point was that, if Nagase liked to watch a little porn every now and then he's not some gigantic pervert or bad person, he's a normal guy. And if it is ruining his life, its still not something to shame him over, its an addiction and that's something people should give him the privacy to deal with it. And that's
if the tabloids are true.