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Originally Posted by Chibi-Chan
I don't care if you or happiholic★ don't want your partners to adopt your last names. It's your life girls and just do whatever makes you happy.
But I do care if someone like SilverOwl comes here and judges Ayu and her husband for the choice to adopt each other's last name. Someone just said that it's cute they did that and SilverOwl has nothing better to do than to jump in and to say it's not with a total sexist argument. If happiholic★ says "It's cute for Ayu and her hubby, but not for me" that's fine, she just stated she wouldn't do it but doesn't care if others do. SilverOwl on the contrary wasn't talking about herself/himself, she/he was judging someone she/he doesn't even know.
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What the hell! For one I'm a she. For second I was NOT judging Ayu or her husband. I do find it emasculating. If someone else finds it cute that's fine. It does remind me of something a rich widows toy boy would do, I didn't call Ayu's hubby a rich widows toy boy, I actually happen to like him, he seems like a good natured sort with a good sense of fun.
When the hell did it become a sexist argument? It was one sentence and you go attacking me like I'm waving an anti equality flag. It was an opinion, I just like things more traditional. At least ask me what I meant before you attack me.
I wouldn't like my guy to take my name, I would find it awkward. It was a general opinion. I never said that guy is emasculating himself and he is a rich widows toy boy. I was not judging anyone. Don't go jumping down my throat.
Did you think I was some sweaty guy sitting behind a computer screen thinking woman should be tied to a kitchen sink, trust me, I' am very, very serious on women's rights.
I understand that you found my words upsetting but next time ask me what I mean, have a go and say, are you being sexist or what? Don't just assume.
Jeez, I leave and come back to find myself being blasted for a harmless comment on a harmless subject.
You are completely singling me out, emi also finds it emasculating but I'm the one you shoot? I'm sorry you got upset by it, but next time ask me, don't stab me in the eye!