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Originally Posted by Chibi-Chan
Maybe you didn't wanted to make a sexist comment, maybe you just wanted to say what emi and happyholic said, but in the end it only matters what you actually wrote. And you were not only insulting Ayu and her hubby, you were insulting every couple that decides that he adopts her last name. Like I said, maybe it wasn't your intention to do that, but you did. I'm 23 and by asking me that I'm assuming you're a little older, but if you're not in your 50s I don't think there can be a generation gap which makes it difficult to understand each other. So if you're a real adult don't try to whitewash what you wrote. Just say sorry, explain what you actually wanted to say but stop denying what you wrote before.
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I'm not whitewashing, I get anxious when there are arguments. All I really wanted to say was that I would find it uncomfortable if it was my husband but you know in families where there are no boys to carry on the line the man sometimes takes the wife's name or double barrels it so I guess its the same thing.
^^I'm glad there are no more arguments, maybe I can still come back and check Ayu's news, maybe. I have trouble talking to people, which is why I post very little and if there are arguments or negativity, I usually run off, maybe this is good for me LOL
Yea, there is an age gap but not that big. I'm not sexist but old fashioned a little, maybe that's not a good thing. I can tell you have very strong views on sexism and that's a good thing, you made me rethink and I'm stubborn.
Take care