There are many concerts, both in Japan and all over that world, that are standing only. I hope most Ayu fans aren't that needy in wanting seats. It's like others have pointed out - fans stand for most of the concerts. They stand for hours for goods and dancers outside the arena. They stand waiting to get into the arena.
I don't think fans will mind standing next to random people, either. You sit next to randoms at concerts! And unless you're in a mosh pit, you're not going to get shoved around too much. Some people like to squeeze through, but your toes will be just fine.
__________________
♥ Ayu fan since September 2006 ♥
Ayu Concerts I've Attended:
ASIA TOUR 2008 - June 29, 2008
ARENA TOUR 2009 - June 20, 2009 | June 21, 2009
ARENA TOUR 2012 - April 7, 2012 | April 8, 2012