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I'm someone very critique about everything (like EVERYTHING, including myself). Yet I never say something just for the sake of being negative, throw some hate or undermine others opinions. When I feel something is good I say it. When I feel something is not good... I sometimes try to say it.
I have to say it's been more and more difficult for me to be totally honest in my opinions because each time I know if I do so I will have a lot of posts saying my opinion is trash, I'm not a fan, or simply explaining me I'm wrong. I don't want that and I'm sure everybody doesn't. I even refrain for posting here (I mean in this conversation) because I didn't want to drag it further of make myself appear like a "bad fan" to some. I'm still not sure if it was a good decision. I already erased a post I wrote few days ago to answer to that...
I'm not complaining or focusing on anyone in particular, I'm very happy to be a able to share opinion with you ALL, read different opinions than mine, same and opposite, and I will always be <3.
I just wish people would take negative opinions more lightly. It's quite... tiring to have to defend oneself every time we think something in particular is not good for our own valid reasons, or be called indirectly of various things.
Still I fully agree some negative comments may sound rude to some and should be said more delicately. But let's be quite honest 90% of the time the comments are quite nice here so I don't understand the too frequent debates (unhealthy ones I mean) that follow most of the time when a negative one pop up.
It's a great forum and I wish everyone should be able to talk freely yet respectfully about ayu but also about/to the other members.
One more time I'm not speaking of anyone in particular when I say this (for that particular matter it's very tiring to read indirect attacks about one's opinion, trying to making it more important than it is. It's also not very respectful).
I'm sorry guys... this comment is a bit... all over the place and my English is still... not great haha :,x
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