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Originally Posted by maxikot
I don't think there is anything weird about it. I mean, don't you do it in life too? We're intelligent creatures so before we release words, in my eyes, we should give a little consideration whether they can hurt somebody's feelings. And it's not sth that takes much effort but rather happens automatically. Naturally, sometimes in the heat of the moment, I can say something (life, forum) that shouldn't come out but then I tend to realize it shouldn't have happened. When we write though, we can allow ourselves to take time and think about what to write and even then I also failed once or twice, got a warning and I regreted my words because I understood my error. What I mean is, it's perfectly okay to say we don't like something, even when it's obvious that it's a personal opinion, but throwing very harsh or intense words just doesn't look good and will attack feelings of people who enjoy a particular release. So instead of saying (for example) "I hate this song! It's so bad I can't listen to it! This isn't ayu I know." there are ways to make it sound less emotional but communicate the same idea. So there's nothing wrong with choosing words when we type. That's my opinion and I can only hope you don't take it as my offence at you
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I don't even mind the "I hate this", "I can't listen to this". This is an opinion and that's ok... I myself hate one of her most beloved songs, Grateful days.
What bothers me it's when things go to the "this is objectivelly bad and nobody should like this" vibe thing gets sometimes, because this isn't the person saying they dislike the release anymore, this is alo an attack on whoever liked the release perception about it.
Also, it really annoys me when a pop music release people dislike makes them judge on her character. Like she as a lesser person because she didn't sound perfect on a performance or a song were disliked. Even worst considering very few people in the industry are as hardworking as her and that she does have limitations she can do little about.
And I completely agree with Maxilot. You will always have to put some filter while communicating to others. Or as goes a brazilian saying, "quem fala o que não quer, ouve o que não quer"or "those who say whatever they want will hear things they don't want to"