[bulmasman]

let's face it, to use the term "gay" to describe something that's bad or so is just a figure of speech, not particularly intended to offend or anything, it's just a negative connotation picked up over the years. However, having said that, some people will find it offensive, so it is a 2 point argument. I've used the phrase myself, though not on the board, but i use it without thinking, which i think may be the case here, though i'm not certain 100%