Ayu and her true LOVE

C+R+E+AYUMI · #1 5th October 2009, 02:14 PM

recently, Ayu has posted many thought about her lonelyness in her Diary..
she hardly wonders why her true LOVE isn't still arrived.
maybe, across her 31st birthday, this kinda thoughts fulfilled her mind and brought her to write some pessimistic posts.

She's so beautiful, successfull and rich..

so, just to figuring it out, why in your opinion she isn't able to build a strong real relationship?

I just believe that her super busy life doesn't allow her to enjoy her time.
I imagine that she hasn't the material time to know other people or date someone with constance.

love in music · #2 5th October 2009, 02:21 PM

yeah, i think her job, she's a workaholic and would have to find someone who supports her lifestyle. maybe if she took a break, she could go out more and have time to date and get to know new people etc

MissElin_ · #3 5th October 2009, 02:23 PM

I just feel that this is none of our business actually.

vampireknightzero · #4 5th October 2009, 02:26 PM

I find it's kind of sad, she has both her career and love during her peak famous years. Now, everything seems to go down for her. Whatever the case, really hope Ayu can find her true love and happiness

Fans will be glad for her

Andrenekoi · #5 5th October 2009, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by MissElin_

I just feel that this is none of our business actually.

This :B

Not~Yet · #6 5th October 2009, 03:12 PM

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Originally Posted by C+R+E+AYUMI

so, just to figuring it out, why in your opinion she isn't able to build a strong real relationship?

Well, she was together with Tomoya for 7 years... I honestly think it wouldn't have lasted half that if it weren't a strong real relationship. It just happened to end, i guess. Nobody else but they know all about their relationship though so it's hard to say what kind of realitonship it was.

Imo: someone who starts relationships every now and then but they end as quickly as the started -> not able to build a strong relationship

someone who has been together with someone for years but broke up and is now ready for a new relationship -> not someone not able to build a strong relationship

But anyways... I think she has said a few times herself something along the lines that she works so hard and is so focused on her work that her relationships are sometimes pushed aside.

C+R+E+AYUMI · #7 5th October 2009, 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by MissElin_

I just feel that this is none of our business actually.

I believe that 90% of the discussions posted here aren't our business, don't you believe so?
please relax, is just to discuss

StarSUCKER · #8 5th October 2009, 03:58 PM

I think regardless of your social status, wealth/lack thereof, and yes even appearance, whether or not you find the right person for you is almost entirely up to luck. Unfortunately.

I wish the best of luck for Ayu. <3

MissElin_ · #9 5th October 2009, 03:59 PM

^Belive me I am relaxed. That comment kind of show that I am don't it?

Anyway, yes there is alot of talking here that isnt really our business but some things are a little bit to meaningless imo. I mean, is it really up to us to talk about what Ayu does right or wrong not to find her "special someone"...? Talking about how her cover looks or how her CDs sales and dancers and such, is all good and fun. But "what's wrong with Ayu's lovelife"... do we really need to go there?

StarSUCKER · #10 5th October 2009, 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by MissElin_

But "what's wrong with Ayu's lovelife"... do we really need to go there?

Mmm, maybe not quite like that lol. But I think most people have a feeling of sympathy, and an "I hope Ayu finds someone if it'll make her happy" kind of sentiment. And of course, if Ayu herself brings it up in diary entries, she obviously wants to share her feelings a little on the subject. Otherwise it probably wouldn't come up so much.

Luvia · #11 5th October 2009, 04:36 PM

to me is more of like the different stages of life... now she got $$, she got career, she got assets, she got very good friends and social circle, in the pink of health (at least her condition seem to be stable), she got to move on. what she lack most now is love. no matter how successful she was, she will still need love from bf. even though the fans won't probe about it, she is still a woman, she will definitely bring up this issue every now and then.

but actually i don't think she totally doesn't has the love luck. because she herself knows that she is famous and rich, she has to be careful. who knows the guy who is dating her is just for the sake of her assets, money and to gain fame?

Corvina · #12 5th October 2009, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by zelenk0

I think regardless of your social status, wealth/lack thereof, and yes even appearance, whether or not you find the right person for you is almost entirely up to luck. Unfortunately.

I wish the best of luck for Ayu. <3

I agree. Ayu is a normal human being, there are so much people out there who are lonely as well (and are workaholics as well or/and beautiful). She isn't alone with that. Love takes its own ways.

But I wish her all the best.

ayu_fantasy · #13 5th October 2009, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Luvia

to me is more of like the different stages of life... now she got $$, she got career, she got assets, she got very good friends and social circle, in the pink of health (at least her condition seem to be stable), she got to move on. what she lack most now is love. no matter how successful she was, she will still need love from bf. even though the fans won't probe about it, she is still a woman, she will definitely bring up this issue every now and then.

but actually i don't think she totally doesn't has the love luck. because she herself knows that she is famous and rich, she has to be careful. who knows the guy who is dating her is just for the sake of her assets, money and to gain fame?

Yep, true....

And also, how many male actors/celebrities would even dare to date her out?? (Given her current social status, wealth and looks)... They might feel pressurize being her boyfriend i guess... and getting along with ayu would mean that they would be constantly under the spotlight....

I guess there are many male celebrities who likes ayu out there... But it's just that it will be impossible to date her or even get near her....

But still, ayu gets paraniod and emotional sometimes, I think a boyfriend to take care of her would be better.... anyway, wish her luck and all the best to find her true love!!!

#14 5th October 2009, 07:33 PM

She just hasn't met me yet

Lady_Eowyn · #15 5th October 2009, 07:59 PM

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Originally Posted by ~ayu-cake~

She just hasn't met me yet

that's really sweet ^_^U

I think... that is , like many said, because she is too focused on her career. A strong relationship requires a lot of time to be built, and i don't think she has the time/ or will to do the effort and sacrifices a relationship requires to grow strong.

I also think she really cannot stop working. She struggles a lot when she has nothing to do,and that's time she could spend having something with someone.

if someone is with her, that person should be aware of the fact she is not going to have much spare time to be with that person, and may be that's why she doesn't have any boyfriend right now

anyway, though some of you disagree, i think she's in love with Midoring

SunshineSlayer · #16 5th October 2009, 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by MissElin_

I just feel that this is none of our business actually.

That's true.

But I'm chiming in anyways. I don't think its her job. I mean partially yes, of course but I think it goes more down to her core values. You can see it in her lyrics all the time. I think she has a problem with making the ultimate long term commitment and that is not surprising given that she was raised in a household where she wouldn't see any need to have a man around all the time.

zyoeru · #17 5th October 2009, 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by SunshineSlayer

That's true.

But I'm chiming in anyways. I don't think its her job. I mean partially yes, of course but I think it goes more down to her core values. You can see it in her lyrics all the time. I think she has a problem with making the ultimate long term commitment and that is not surprising given that she was raised in a household where she wouldn't see any need to have a man around all the time.

Plenty of people are brought up that way though, it's not so much the environment she was brought in tbh...

Ayu_Ready · #18 5th October 2009, 09:20 PM

I think too her work is always her first love, some times ago people said she could be gay I don't believe it but ^^

Andrenekoi · #19 5th October 2009, 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by SunshineSlayer

That's true.

But I'm chiming in anyways. I don't think its her job. I mean partially yes, of course but I think it goes more down to her core values. You can see it in her lyrics all the time. I think she has a problem with making the ultimate long term commitment and that is not surprising given that she was raised in a household where she wouldn't see any need to have a man around all the time.

This... and based on some interviews... she has lots of problems with father/husband roles...

SunshineSlayer · #20 5th October 2009, 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by zyoeru

Plenty of people are brought up that way though, it's not so much the environment she was brought in tbh...

It will obviously be a huge contributing factor. As andrenokoi mentioned, its kinda all over her lyrics and interviews. It's also considered no secret really that it was Nagase Tomoya who wanted to move the relationship forward, but that Ayu was kind of the one putting the brakes on it. I can only imagine how he must of felt when reading the lyrics to songs like Happy Ending and such etc etc. Honestly I wouldn't be that surprised if Ayu ends up never getting married or at least not until much later in life - it seems that's likely just how her personality is.