I met GOMI ^^

[douggn]

I would go there not because ayu is my fav but because he was my fav dancer. I loved his comical part in her shows.

[Andrenekoi]

^Intention means nothing on this subject, and even so, you said you expected something bad from the bar for him being gay. And yeap, if you said you expected something bad for him being japanese, that would be racist.

[SKYia]

^ I did not, I said I didn't know what to expect, so just stop being a hater.

[orangeakira]

I haven't read the rest of this thread, I only read the original post and I have no interest in other people's responses. I'm just going to say one thing.

Originally Posted by SKYia

Me and a friend of mine spent whole 5minutes in front of the door wondering what kind of bar will it be (knowing that Gomi is homosexual) and if we should enter at all, but after seeing lots of photos of him and his friends with kids there (on FB) I was pretty sure it won't be anything bad.

Glad to know that you learned that homosexuals are non threatening. And that because he has normal pictures of himself on facebook with children and friends instead of, you know, the usual pics that gays have like slings and whips it's okay to enter his bar without being sexually assaulted.

[SKYia]

I give up, thank you for reading so much from this sentence and explaining to me what a terrible person I am. Sorry for sharing a happy experience, I've learned my lesson well.

[Chibi-Chan]

Originally Posted by SKYia

I give up, thank you for reading so much from this sentence and explaining to me what a terrible person I am. Sorry for sharing a happy experience, I've learned my lesson well.

Instead of blaming others you should ask yourself why you and your friend have such prejudices against homosexual men, why you felt the need to tell ahs that you have those prejudices and what the hell made you think that other people would say "sure, it's just natural to expect strange and evil things from homosexuals!".
Prejudice against homosexuals is called homophobia. If you don't want to be homophobic, stop assuming bad things from homosexual people. There is nothing in the world that would justify your assumptions.
And no one told you you were a terrible person. Learn to deal with critic.

[koumori]

I can see why people took offence at the original wording, but I think the point has been made now. If people want to discuss this topic further please take it to PM.