Ayu's social networks - Discussion #42

[rainbow_smile]

Originally Posted by artcika

um has she ever really spoke about wanting to have kids of her own though? Fans keeps bringing that up but i never saw anyone mentioning anything about it said by herself.

In fact she mentioned that she's not planning to have children anytime soon. I think it was in a Bea's UP interview soon after she announced she got married.

[Machiko]

Do we really still have to. I hoped this would have died out if I backed out from replying to avoid further arguing but apparently not

Originally Posted by rainbow_smile

In fact she mentioned that she's not planning to have children anytime soon. I think it was in a Bea's UP interview soon after she announced she got married.

Which makes the whole expecting-a-woman-to-have-a-family-because-she's-a-woman even creepier. Saying "can't wait for her to have a family" is pretty straightforwardly assuming that SHE WILL, period, regardless what she herself feels about it. Implying that there's no other choice for her, that the job of a woman is that alone, and it's creepy and personal, WHEN she even has mentioned not planning on having kids. And ya'll keep on discussing about this as if to stir up this into a drama once again, like, give it a rest already. Pretty please. We've told you why, you refuse to listen. Women get constantly pressured into having kids and families and told they're selfish if they choose not to or/and pursue career over family, and this is one way that keeps this crappy culture alive. I don't think this is at all too difficult thing to grasp, but I'm guesing you just don't care.
You might think we're just "taking it too far", being too lazy thinking outside of your own box, but have you actually considered viewing this from our perspective? Without bashing our arguments as "taking too far", "sensitive", "triggered", try to understand where we're coming from?

Sorry, if I'm snappy / rude, but the same song every time and repeating the same arguments that fall on deaf ears is getting so tiring.

Maybe back to the social networks discussions, god please?

[Ryusei]

What does the caption say under her pic from behind?

[Louass]

^ "a.you今日は大切な人の誕生日だった。
日の出頃に起きて、その人に見せたい景色をビデオに収めながら選んだBGMは弟のソロアルバム だった。
考えてみればこの2人は私の人生においての最高の瞬間は勿論、呆れる程どうしようもない瞬間でさえも、それ ぞれの形で真っ直ぐな愛をもって真摯に寄り添い支えて来てくれた2人。
日が暮れて行くのを眺めながら、少し泣きそうになったのと同時に改めて感謝したんだ。
人生まだまだ捨てたもんじゃないよ。
これからも続く私達の未来に乾杯っ🍾"

No idea what that means, so if anyone could translate that'd be great, lol
I LOVE that picture, too! I would rather have that as the cover for A SUMMER BEST, than the ones we got Has she said where she is right now? 'Cause that place is beautiful

Also I literally just said I can't wait for the day she has a happy family of her own. She seems to like children, and I'm sure she'd be an amazing mother. If she chooses to never have children, cool. If she does, then they'll probably be the cutest and luckiest kids. Don't know what the big deal is. Ayu is a human being and deserves to be happy in every way in her life, all I'm doing is hoping she one day has everything she wants out of life, be that with or without children. I swear sometimes it's almost impossible to be a fan of this woman with so many negative people around

[EndOfTheWorld]

Originally Posted by Louass

^ "a.you今日は大切な人の誕生日だった。
日の出頃に起きて、その人に見せたい景色をビデオに収めながら選んだBGMは弟のソロアルバム だった。
考えてみればこの2人は私の人生においての最高の瞬間は勿論、呆れる程どうしようもない瞬間でさえも、それ ぞれの形で真っ直ぐな愛をもって真摯に寄り添い支えて来てくれた2人。
日が暮れて行くのを眺めながら、少し泣きそうになったのと同時に改めて感謝したんだ。
人生まだまだ捨てたもんじゃないよ。
これからも続く私達の未来に乾杯っ🍾"

No idea what that means, so if anyone could translate that'd be great, lol
I LOVE that picture, too! I would rather have that as the cover for A SUMMER BEST, than the ones we got Has she said where she is right now? 'Cause that place is beautiful

Also I literally just said I can't wait for the day she has a happy family of her own. She seems to like children, and I'm sure she'd be an amazing mother. If she chooses to never have children, cool. If she does, then they'll probably be the cutest and luckiest kids. Don't know what the big deal is. Ayu is a human being and deserves to be happy in every way in her life, all I'm doing is hoping she one day has everything she wants out of life, be that with or without children. I swear sometimes it's almost impossible to be a fan of this woman with so many negative people around

I wouldn't worry about it. It's just people taking things way too far. They interpret curiosity regarding how Ayu feels about having children and if she ever will, as fans "expecting" her to have a child because that is her "job" as a female.
I'm curious as well if Ayu has a desire for a family, mostly because I am not sure she has ever mentioned it. But similar to what you said, it's her choice if she wants to and neither choice is bad.

[BlackSilence]

^i actually thought it was a fluffy hairband lol

[kotora]

Originally Posted by artcika

^i actually thought it was a fluffy hairband lol

That would be a very thick and big hairband.

It really looks like a donut..

[pedronekoi]

^ It is. Not a donut lol

Wondering where she is now... Cuz Japan is really cold right now.

[Louass]

^I'd love to know who you're talking to, 'cause if you're talking to/about me, I'd very much appreciate it if you actually quoted or @'ed me directly. I never said I expect her to have a family because she's a woman, I don't think anyone here has said that. Again, literally never said she has no other option, I said if she has kids that's awesome, if she doesn't then cool. I see her looking happy as fuck around children, so can I not hope that if she likes children, that maybe she'll choose to have her own? I never saw that she said she's not planning on having children at the moment, but hell, now I know. And no one's even arguing? But you sure seem excited as hell to come in and put your two cents in when no one asked, lol. I don't need to see anything from anyone else's perspective because I literally said "If she chooses to never have children, cool. If she does, then they'll probably be the cutest and luckiest kids," meaning: Hey, it's her own goddamn choice but I can HOPE that one day she her own family because she deserves all the happiness in the world, Jesus Christ.

And hey, I wasn't an active member here till recently so I was never here for whatever arguments got all you guys' panties in a bunch about a simple-ass subject, so, yeah. I made a comment, I explained where I came from, and continued to talk about the stuff she posts in social media so if anyone need to get over it is everyone that keeps talking about a simple-ass comment I made, lol. Get over it.

Also I totally get I'm being rude af myself now, but when you take words I said but don't have the balls to actually say all of that to me, I'm not gonna feel the need to be respectful or even apologize for being rude. I'm just here to talk about the person I have a ton of love for, and if you're gonna criticize comments I've made that had absolutely no negative connotation. I'm not gonna keep quiet when someone comes for my character, just effin' sayin'.

SOOOOOOOOO does anyone know where is right now? lol

[Pieces_of_SEVEN]

Originally Posted by Louass

^I'd love to know who you're talking to, 'cause if you're talking to/about me, I'd very much appreciate it if you actually quoted or @'ed me directly. I never said I expect her to have a family because she's a woman, I don't think anyone here has said that. Again, literally never said she has no other option, I said if she has kids that's awesome, if she doesn't then cool. I see her looking happy as fuck around children, so can I not hope that if she likes children, that maybe she'll choose to have her own? I never saw that she said she's not planning on having children at the moment, but hell, now I know. And no one's even arguing? But you sure seem excited as hell to come in and put your two cents in when no one asked, lol. I don't need to see anything from anyone else's perspective because I literally said "If she chooses to never have children, cool. If she does, then they'll probably be the cutest and luckiest kids," meaning: Hey, it's her own goddamn choice but I can HOPE that one day she her own family because she deserves all the happiness in the world, Jesus Christ.

And hey, I wasn't an active member here till recently so I was never here for whatever arguments got all you guys' panties in a bunch about a simple-ass subject, so, yeah. I made a comment, I explained where I came from, and continued to talk about the stuff she posts in social media so if anyone need to get over it is everyone that keeps talking about a simple-ass comment I made, lol. Get over it.

Also I totally get I'm being rude af myself now, but when you take words I said but don't have the balls to actually say all of that to me, I'm not gonna feel the need to be respectful or even apologize for being rude. I'm just here to talk about the person I have a ton of love for, and if you're gonna criticize comments I've made that had absolutely no negative connotation. I'm not gonna keep quiet when someone comes for my character, just effin' sayin'.

SOOOOOOOOO does anyone know where is right now? lol

LOL maybe it might be time for me to hand my "let a bitch know" reigns over to you

[EndOfTheWorld]

You can't fight it. That's why I'm not responding to it. They just have to make something out of nothing. Any opportunity to spew their feminist rhetoric, they take. It would be a different story if someone here actually believed that the purpose of a woman is to have children, but no one does. Everyone is in the right here but you can't win. It usually gets to the point of bullying as mentioned earlier.
I think we all support Ayu and her decisions.
And to me it looks like a scrunchie/hair tie.

Spoiler:

[xLuna&1LOVE]

Damn, well here we go again. The BB talk isn't even cute anymore. And I am so tired of reading those pro-feminist novels, which always end with the same clues. So people, can we just not? Even though both parties have valuable points, you guys will never ever agree with each other, and the drama gets uninteresting. Please, do it for the neutral party. We just want to talk about what kind of donut that is in front of her.

[koumori]

Originally Posted by xLuna&1LOVE

We just want to talk about what kind of donut that is in front of her.

Truth
Definitely a hair scrunchie. But I am totally open to other donut shaped conspiracies...

[Zeke.]

This fucking "issue" is exhausting. I could see the snowball rolling down the hill and getting bigger and bigger and I just knew a stiff tree was bound to get in the way and burst that mother fucker.

Honestly, Ayu is a treasure to the world, and it's natural to hope that her legacy is passed on. And I also don't buy the whole it's oppressive argument because I honestly think people would say the same thing about a male legendary if he got to a certain age and had yet to begin fathering a child. I think people ask those kind of questions of anyone as they age "Is he married? Does he have any kids?"

[kotora]

Originally Posted by Koumori

Truth
Definitely a hair scrunchie. But I am totally open to other donut shaped conspiracies...

It looks like a white creamy donut with uncertain white colour stuff with white powder for decoration and it is staying between her legs. Maybe she should write a song about Donut. Like that EGG rumors around I am... arc

We are also 80% sure that she saw that fake tracking list while some songs in that list become a real song.

[Louass]

Lol isn't it just a fluffy scrunchie?

[oaristos]

I think we should go back to the conversation about the donut instead of arguing over the same issues again. Seriously, STOP talking about pregnancy or anything related to that. We've all been there and we all know it never ends well. This topic was almost forgotten a few posts ago and you guys keep bringing it back.

[Evan Odinson]

Can she please upload another damn selfie so we can talk about THAT instead?

[Aderianu]

Originally Posted by Evan Odinson

Can she please upload another damn selfie so we can talk about THAT instead?

nothing new at her instagram =( so here are two old photos from acollection

[Zeke.]

Originally Posted by oaristos

I think we should go back to the conversation about the donut instead of arguing over the same issues again. Seriously, STOP talking about pregnancy or anything related to that. We've all been there and we all know it never ends well. This topic was almost forgotten a few posts ago and you guys keep bringing it back.

Lol, I know. I kept thinking it was going to disappear but people kept sticking their coins in the machine and when it finally started moving I figured I'll be damned if I can't stick my quarter in the fucking thing now too.