[Blog] Ayu announces separation from Tyson

[kendelle]

Originally Posted by dreamalley

In the end she's not alone, she has a ton of fans who love her.

Fan love is different and can't compete with real interpersonal love. Regardless I think her fan support definitely helps ease the pain and is reassuring when she risks getting attacked in the media

[EndOfTheWorld]

Originally Posted by SunshineSlayer

He was married to a Korean woman before, but this was way back around his Malice Mizer days. So hey, they have marriages and divorces to foreigners in common as well.

This is true.
I do believe that he said he would never get married again, I think it was in an autobiography.
I also think Hyde is the love of his life.
But I was thinking that Ayu's relationship with Tomoya Nagase is her longest lasting and he was Japanese and in the entertainment industry in Japan. Maybe that is a sign that foreigners are more difficult. Relationships are very complicated and I know me personally, I would not know how to handle dating a celebrity.

[AyuHamasaki01]

Not surprised tbh.

[rikku1994]

Originally Posted by Maemi

She is the one who made a public statement and who keeps publicizing her private life all the time so please stop acting as if you're defending her honor, it's embarrassing.

Honey, this is a fansite? So it is natural when one fan gets defensive over his/her idol.

And "publicizing her private life all the time"? Really? Like how much do you actually know about her private life? Are you living with her personally? No? Ok.

[Chris85]

That's unexpected, they seemed to be so into each other.
Anyway it's bad press for her again. I bet girlschannel users are celebrating with comments like "Tyson just got tired from being husband for pay."

[Sandy]

More websites discussing her divorce.
Here's for those who want to read:

Japan Today

TokyoHive

JpopAsia

TokyoHive writes the following:

In an ORICON STYLE interview, Hamasaki's agency commented, "It's a private matter so we will leave it up to her." They added, "They haven't divorced yet. It's also possible that they will talk it over and repair their relationship."

[douggn]

Originally Posted by Zeke.

I wish saigodansu was still on this forum because I can just see him citing his conspiracy theories (which I enjoyed as they entertained me by the way) as an "I TOLD YOU SO," lol.

Was this the guy who would privately message members here about how Manny and maro relation ships were all staged fake things?
He's also the one who got offended when ayu started showing support towards the gay community. Like the divine ayu guy.

Ayu's too good for them anyways, it would be an insult for her music to reach their ears.

But at the same time, they are usually someone you would say is a sad person (and not with their mood)

Either way these horrible comments get this response

[relmy]

I don't know how she puts up with all the press, all the time. Compared to the previous relationships, this has been so low key. Even the marriage, and now separation, announcements were simple. No wonder she's kept performing WARNING all this year, no matter what she does, people talk shit. It's not just her either, there was that whole thing with people going after Utada Hikaru's marriage too. Yeah people gossip blah blah blah but it's seriously got to take it's toll after nearly 20 years.

[AyuWorld]

I dont know why, I feel so bad for Ayu, Im sad for her

They are good together and Tyson seems so supportive

[pedronekoi]

Makes me sick reading things like "Second Divorce", "10 years younger than her", "Divorcing again". These are very anti feminist arguments. So what if she's getting divorced again? So what if her husband is 1 or 10 years younger than her? What's wrong whit that? I bet if this was about a male celebrity the perspective and media approach would be very different. (it's just something I needed to say because sometimes people reproduce those arguments without thinking about how unfair it is)

[douggn]

Originally Posted by ExodusUK

Japanese netizen comments -
http://minuskakugo.blogspot.ca/2016/...-2nd-time.html

They don't really care lol.

I just think te human IQ has gone down with the later generations. Like come on. A story made in a different country is suppost to have all the secret facts. What, does Taiwan have ninja reporters hinding in cupbords in japan, getting the scoop. These are just comments from people who.dont even follow her. All artist get it. Madonna is her age and how she sucks the life force from her victims, beyonce is she lies about her age and is really 44. The world will always have haters, sad fact but true.

[EndOfTheWorld]

The earlier postings here I thought were mostly very pleasant and supportive of Ayu and I felt happy that everyone was coming together for her.
But now I feel this thread is going to get dramatic. Everyone has to try and be Ayu's number 1 fan and think they are superior. Such divas.
It is very unnessesary to get so upset over this.
Seriously, just keep supporting Ayu and ignore all the online gossip. Who cares about the fake fans and media? Don't get swept away by this news, it will bring out the lower parts of you.
It would be wise to not dwell on this news. Just like it is not good to dwell over a failed relationship. Toxic. I bet Ayu will get over this faster than a lot of other people out there.

Spoiler:

[Larisa-chan]

Well, no surprises here. Sad to hear it, though. And yeah, I will be one to say "again?" Two divorces within 6 years or so is like... >.> She seemingly has had a roller coaster life these past several years, and some issues throughout her life. (I also can't help but feel some stuff with her is "typical celebrity" crap.) I wonder if she's ever gone to therapy before? Maybe could be beneficial for her if she hasn't. This is coming from a therapist (me), so please don't flip out and be like "HOW DARE YOU SUGGEST THERAPY LIKE ZOMG U DUN NO HUR LYFE, HUR LYRICS, FRIENDS AND INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS ARE ALL THE THERAPY SHE'LL EVER NEEEEED." Therapy isn't a bad thing. From what she has portrayed to the public she seems to be all over the place.

[koumori]

If they had been relationships, no one would bat an eyelid. I think Ayu loves the idea of a sudden, amazing relationship that turns into 'the one' for her and she also likely now has the freedom to marry whenever she wants. I assume when she was with Nagase, marriage was never an option for them. She's also been in the whole celebrity gig since she was really young... I mean, I can't judge her for trying to create her own form of normality. I just hope that one day she finds it and it is at a pace that brings her peace, not more stress.

I can understand why people would judge her harshly for this, and since she is a celebrity it will be talked about. Everyone has the right to their opinion. But, I will say that none of us know the real Ayu behind the scenes or what really happened. We can make assumptions (like I have just above, haha) that are positive, negative, or neutral but they will all stem from our perception of her as a person - and we only know what she's shown us. Let's try to keep that in mind.

[EndOfTheWorld]

↑
The voice of reason.

[douggn]

Originally Posted by EndOfTheWorld

The earlier postings here I thought were mostly very pleasant and supportive of Ayu and I felt happy that everyone was coming together for her.
But now I feel this thread is going to get dramatic. Everyone has to try and be Ayu's number 1 fan and think they are superior. Such divas.
It is very unnessesary to get so upset over this.
Seriously, just keep supporting Ayu and ignore all the online gossip. Who cares about the fake fans and media? Don't get swept away by this news, it will bring out the lower parts of you.
It would be wise to not dwell on this news. Just like it is not good to dwell over a failed relationship. Toxic. I bet Ayu will get over this faster than a lot of other people out there.

Spoiler:

But it could also he said its healthy for us to get our thought out about it oviously the comments can anger us bit ots not good to hold it all inside. Some things will be over the top, but its just fans expressing their frustration with support

[ExodusUK]

Its really surprising how Japanese fans are just summarising her marriage up as an attempt for a green card.

[Ryusei]

I think if I was ayu I would just quit the business and release a yearly album on soundcloud or smth at this point, fans always complaining about everything, trashing everything she does, regular non-fans complaining about everything she does. I'd be so fed up.

[Yannetakizawa]

Originally Posted by Sandy

More websites discussing her divorce.
Here's for those who want to read:

Japan Today

TokyoHive

JpopAsia

TokyoHive writes the following:

"They haven't divorced yet. It's also possible that they will talk it over and repair their relationship."

[a❤martian]

I find it kinda weird that her agency would say that she may repair her relationship when she herself has said that she's leaving him.

Anyway, as long as she's happy, that's what's important.