How messy was the divorce?

[RayJason]

Today I've learned that AHS consists out of a fair amount of people who don't have their own opinions, some of you really dig in others their *bleep* to suck up, it's disgusting. OR I have yet to realize that it's completely normal for people to insult their exes by calling them a psycho, especially when you were married to Japan's biggest J-POP artist. (Even if it isn't about ayu, it's bound to hurt someone. Which must have been his intention otherwise he could have added some other text than "haha...funny". Heck, he shouldn't even have posted that). (Yeah I interpret it as being about ayu, since she's the first woman he's been married to. What gives me another reason is that he posted this not so long after his divorce.)

While some of you accept this, I'll remain myself and remain to my reasonable high standards, and remain resisting that this is something 'little' or just a funny joke.

[jewelbox]

That's kinda rude, I have my own opinion about this, and I already posted it..
I just can't take "your e-card" posted on FB as dead serious statement about their marriage or Ayu.

IF he actually means that, which we don't know, then he's a douche.

edit: this is really going out of hands. Don't take it too seriously, people (?). ._.

[YUKARI]

haha why is he acting like an attention seeking *itch? he's so pathetic

Originally Posted by lfe.

Most of you liked him when he was married to Ayu, then you disliked him when he got divorced, now you find any reason to continuing hating him. If he took a picture of himself topless with his hair covering his chest, you'd be offended saying hes mocking the Loveppears cover. Give it a rest.

for me it's different, I hated him first...even before he got married to Ayu

[Kazeyomi]

Originally Posted by RayJason

Today I've learned that AHS consists out of a fair amount of people who don't have their own opinions, some of you really dig in others their *bleep* to suck up, it's disgusting. OR I have yet to realize that it's completely normal for people to insult their exes by calling them a psycho, especially when you were married to Japan's biggest J-POP artist. (Even if it isn't about ayu, it's bound to hurt someone. Which must have been his intention otherwise he could have added some other text than "haha...funny". Heck, he shouldn't even have posted that). (Yeah I interpret it as being about ayu, since she's the first woman he's been married to. What gives me another reason is that he posted this not so long after his divorce.)

While some of you accept this, I'll remain myself and remain to my reasonable high standards, and remain resisting that this is something 'little' or just a funny joke.

I think this is quite rude to say :/

I'd be upset if Mannie called Ayu a disgusting asian *****. That is just a stupid meme who everyone's posting on facebook.
As much as we know, Mannie was really in love with her and being dumped after few months.. it's awful even if she's one of the most famous Japanese singers. Don't be surprise if he's bitter.

But whatever I'll stay here with my mind empty of opinions because I'm not freak out about a stupid meme.

[RayJason]

Originally Posted by Kazeyomi

I think this is quite rude to say :/

I'd be upset if Mannie called Ayu a disgusting asian *****. That is just a stupid meme who everyone's posting on facebook.
As much as we know, Mannie was really in love with her and being dumped after few months.. it's awful even if she's one of the most famous Japanese singers. Don't be surprise if he's bitter.

But whatever I'll stay here with my mind empty of opinions because I'm not freak out about a stupid meme.

The fair amount of people I was referring to, were the guys who hated Mannie's guts so much, like trolling around saying how hairy, what a golddigger he was and stupid he is. And now they're like "everyone is so stupid, everyone is overreacting, get a grip everyone". I used to be one of the people who had no exact feeling about him (sure disgusted when his photobook leaked), I usually fought off the anti-Mannie trolls, but this is so disrespectful that it stained my positive feelings towards him and at the same time, it made me change from perspective, entirely.

But yeah, I'm not in the position (which I don't even want to be in) to change people their view on this. It's actually up to you whatever you want to believe. I see it like this (WARNING: exaggerated, because AHS loves it like that):

A. It's (probably) intended as joke, and you realize that many people will interpret it (which is super logical) as being offensive. (There's a (HIGH) chance that he's talking about ayu, and if he does he's offending her. Nobody likes to be called a psycho, especially by someone who you have been in a relationship with for a year.) or

B. It's just a joke, it's normal to call your exes (people who you have been intimate with, shared pain and love with and in this case where married to) psycho. What the hell; etiquettes, manners and respect? LOL We're not fricking living in the 1930's anymore. People who take this funny joke too seriously are idiots and need to be re-schooled.

aka, I find it weird that people are protecting Mannie, even guessing and blaming that ayu is a psycho. There's no one who can guarantee that he's talking about ayu, but there's also no one who can confirm that this isn't about ayu. The way the post is formulated clearly makes it look like the psycho is ayu in my opinion, since he was married to her and no one else.

[Pieces_of_SEVEN]

Yeah, whether it was about ayu or not, that makes him look like an *******. smh.

[ayu_ready?]

I'm interested if he'll become 'the king of life' afterwards as he's dreaming
I just wanna troll moar

any news on his 'Hollywood sucess'?

[NintendoHTF1242]

this thread lmao

[Pieces_of_SEVEN]

have any of you who had him on your facebook, deleted him?

[Hextan]

Maybe it's because I'm too nice, but I'm here thinking, "poor Manny". He wasn't really a very well known person obviously so being with a star like Ayumi is probably going to be the biggest thing he will be known for, unless he gets lucky or works hard or whatever. But it's like, now, because of this, everything he does will now be looked at from under a microscope by the Ayu stanbase. No matter what, it will seem like what he does has something to do with her, just because.

This thread is a mess and some of you should feel bad.

[Pieces_of_SEVEN]

^^I agree with you. While it doesn't make him look great, he may have just found it funny and wanted to share it.

Some of you scrutinize WAYYYYYYYYYYY too much. Calm yourselves.

[Ayu-me]

Originally Posted by RayJason

The fair amount of people I was referring to, were the guys who hated Mannie's guts so much, like trolling around saying how hairy, what a golddigger he was and stupid he is. And now they're like "everyone is so stupid, everyone is overreacting, get a grip everyone". I used to be one of the people who had no exact feeling about him (sure disgusted when his photobook leaked), I usually fought off the anti-Mannie trolls, but this is so disrespectful that it stained my positive feelings towards him and at the same time, it made me change from perspective, entirely.

But yeah, I'm not in the position (which I don't even want to be in) to change people their view on this. It's actually up to you whatever you want to believe. I see it like this (WARNING: exaggerated, because AHS loves it like that):

A. It's (probably) intended as joke, and you realize that many people will interpret it (which is super logical) as being offensive. (There's a (HIGH) chance that he's talking about ayu, and if he does he's offending her. Nobody likes to be called a psycho, especially by someone who you have been in a relationship with for a year.) or

B. It's just a joke, it's normal to call your exes (people who you have been intimate with, shared pain and love with and in this case where married to) psycho. What the hell; etiquettes, manners and respect? LOL We're not fricking living in the 1930's anymore. People who take this funny joke too seriously are idiots and need to be re-schooled.

aka, I find it weird that people are protecting Mannie, even guessing and blaming that ayu is a psycho. There's no one who can guarantee that he's talking about ayu, but there's also no one who can confirm that this isn't about ayu. The way the post is formulated clearly makes it look like the psycho is ayu in my opinion, since he was married to her and no one else.

Which is why it makes me facepalm reading this thread. We don't know Mannie's intentions with the joke, if it was completely unrelated to Ayu, and if it was related, whether it was meant maliciously or jokingly. Neither do we know whether Ayu herself would take offense. We don't personally know Mannie or the details of his relationship with Ayu, so to take a look at this post and immediately assume he is a jerk, he didn't really love Ayu, their relationship was a sham, etc, is a waste of time. Unless you can guarantee or even give moderate evidence of his intentions, then calling him names or accusing him of bad deeds will only make you look like the bad one.
And don't misunderstand me, I don't mean to insult anyone, but the way some people see this as some kind of right to attack Mannie (like the way people assume he attacked Ayu) gives a bad feeling in my stomach. Please show some more respect, Ayu herself also asked before that fans would not hound Mannie about the divorce.

[Pieces_of_SEVEN]

I wonder if he got a divorce settlement, and how much it was. Hm...

[kotora]

I used to like him a lot when he just become ayu's husband. I felt he could be the one to give ayu da best in her life. Considering ayu's past life (grandmother's death when she released her 1st single, single parents life..etc), I was very happy that she found one in her life.

But now.. I still like him but not as much as I used to.

[Pieces_of_SEVEN]

I felt like I was gonna spend the rest of the life with my last boyfriend. I was madly in love, devoted, and happy. Then BOOM! he broke up with me. And then I met my current, and I feel the same way. But we have the same core values and beliefs, and we both know how important love is. I think he's the one.

My point is...I hope that ayu releases that she will still find love. Eff this dude lol

[attractive nausea]

Originally Posted by Pieces_of_SEVEN

My point is...I hope that ayu releases that she will still find love. Eff this dude lol

I don't think you have to worry because according to the last S Cawaii! interview she has already understood that

(...) I don't think that "I'll never fall in love, never marry again". I can see myself getting married again someday, and I want to fall in love again and again. This is both a good thing and a bad thing. I don't want a perfect love, just to give and receive lots of love from my partner. Good and bad things may happen along the way, but we'll definitely learn from them. So it's not right to hold each other back because we have been sad or hurt and don't wish for that to repeat again... The two of us had truly existed at that time. I don't wish to deny that fact, and now is the time when I want to continue to progress. I'm sure he feels the same way too.
(translation by Misa-chan)

[Pieces_of_SEVEN]

^^Ahh I did read that, must have forgotten about it. Oh ayu

[Andrenekoi]

Originally Posted by SunshineSlayer

I'll cut Mannie some slack on that. For one we don't know if he is even referring to himself with it and for another, we don't know what all went down with Ayu. For all we know, the divorce could have been a complete surprise to him that came out of nowhere. If that is the case, its not surprising that he would be bitter.

IDK... But reading Party Queen lyrics I actually can see something like this happening

[Pieces_of_SEVEN]

^Why those lyrics? That's odd.

Oh, you probably mean the album as a whole...for a second I thought you meant the song "Party queen" lol