ayu's twitter/weibo thread ~part 21~

[Maemi]

Isn't it interesting that Mannie isn't following Ayu anymore?

Originally Posted by Maemi

Isn't it interesting that Mannie isn't following Ayu anymore?

and AYU deleted him from Friends list

[pommy48]

Lol why would he want to follow his ex-wife?

[Maemi]

lol I noticed it today, well it's interesting only because I thought they stayed friends Otherwise, it's not unusual at all~

[TeamAyu2004]

It's not interesting at all... They are no longer married and most likely don't care what the other is doing....

[emi♡]

lol god, what kind of relationships have you people been in!

the only time I stopped following one of my exes, was because it was too painful, not because I didn't care!

I actually find it very interesting they don't follow each other anymore. I can't remember if they spouted any crap about staying friends or not...but yeah, interesting....


anyways....I notice Timmy on the album. The choir is just too distinctive, and it does bug me, because I'm not the biggest fan...but it could be worse.

[jennjenn2010]

Why would they follow each other...they are divorced now, have no feelings for each other, and they were never eally a couple to begin with since the marriage was just for publicity...

[Kazeyomi]

^
omg please, don't start another Mannie drama in here too D: (we got plenty of it in the new divorce thread lol)

Anyway it could hurts both Ayu and Mannie to keep follow each other, I think

[happiholic★]

I haven't unfriended any of my ex's on Facebook, but its because I just don't care about them or Facebook. If they start dating other people, good for them. I'm not dating them, so I don't care. So, I wouldn't be surprised if either Mannie or Ayu was a tad bitter.

[TeamAyu2004]

i dont unfriend my exes either, until i clean house.
If I dont talk to them then there is no reason for them be on my friends list...

[RayJason]

I kinda couldn't ignore them (LOL I'm not a stalker!). I'm not like most others though. I don't freeze out and ignore people after being intimate or in a relationship with them. I've done that before but I don't think it's a 'wise' way to deal with it. I even did it to friends (consider them in a important relationship, yeah) I blocked out one of my friends completely, always giving the silent treatment and such. The way I finish a relationship completely now is by taking it to square one; being friends.

[happiholic★]

I can't be "friends" with them either, though. Too odd. Just be pleasant with them if I ever happen to talk to them.

[emi♡]

guess I'm in the minority then. I'm still great friends with all of my exes, even if we had periods after the break up when we needed time apart.

Anyways, I know their marriage was really quick, but all I'm saying is that for me, it would be really hard for me to love someone so much to decide to marry them, and then just have them out of my life forever. Of course twitter and facebook don't really correspond to "life" though.

But anyways, I don't think it's because they don't care about each other...and if it was...I think that says a lot about their relationship

[happiholic★]

Originally Posted by emi♡

guess I'm in the minority then. I'm still great friends with all of my exes, even if we had periods after the break up when we needed time apart.

Anyways, I know their marriage was really quick, but all I'm saying is that for me, it would be really hard for me to love someone so much to decide to marry them, and then just have them out of my life forever. Of course twitter and facebook don't really correspond to "life" though.

But anyways, I don't think it's because they don't care about each other...and if it was...I think that says a lot about their relationship

I understand where you are coming from, on all points. I agree about Ayu and Mannie. To me, the fact that it was a bit rushed, then they spent so much time apart, it just didn't give them time to get truly close. To the point where distance couldn't break them up.

I just don't want to be friends with my ex's because we didn't really break up on great terms. They try and talk to me now tell me they are sorry and want to try again, but I'm a cold ***** after a relationship. I'm over it, go away.

[emi♡]

I tend to do that with the really short term ones... like under 6 months or so. I never count them lol

[clover_bali]

ayu x SHU-YA =

[TeamAyu2004]

^ never!! lol.

[~K8E~]

I think that with relationships and keeping them on facebook etc it is really about how long you knew them for etc as to weather you delete them or not. I am still friends with my ex, who is now engaged to one of my best friends, but I don't mind it, they are great together and we are still friends. Also we all went to school together and have known each other for years now. Guess I got over it too now that I am married to someone else.

[yoshino]

I think it'll be awkward to follow each other online since both have gone separate ways. O_O

[PoetGirl]

I never delete my ex-es either, but its not like we talk. LOL. its weird.