[News] Wada AKiko commented about ayu's break up issue!

[lilchan]

wha? since when does a breakup determine your future love life?o.o

[Ayumi-Yummi]

Wada Akiko is a very respected and somewhat powerful person in Japan, she has the right to say what she wants!~ Even if it's about Ayumi. If you don't know who she is then you're missing out.

[AyUmIXx]

evolesean: i hope u can translate ur version of the article!

[AyuGAME]

honestly, i feel really dissapointed to with break up decision, i hope ayu will get married in the end of 2007, with tomoya...
i'm afraid that she will be alone forever too...but i will support ayu no matter what

[tenshi no hane]

Staying in a relationship while you don't love the person anymore is more unfair than breaking up IMO. You would only be keeping up a charade. (sp?)
Ayu is a grown woman that can make her own decisions and frankly it's none of our business what she does in her lovelife and especially not something that should be discussed on TV.

[Raleigh]

Originally Posted by tenshi no hane

Staying in a relationship while you don't love the person anymore is more unfair than breaking up IMO. You would only be keeping up a charade. (sp?)
Ayu is a grown woman that can make her own decisions and frankly it's none of our business what she does in her lovelife and especially not something that should be discussed on TV.

Pretty much. If there is no love left within a relationship it is useless to stay together. They would be wasting each others' time and being false to each other. I don't think anyone would want to be in a relationship with someone and later on find out that their partner actually doesn't love them any longer but they stayed with you because it was "convenient".

Ayumi is not a teenager any longer and she knows what she wants in her life. Also she has proven that she's no idiot. If I was her I wouldn't want anyone to discuss my relationship choices on tv, no matter how respected the person is.

[fallen_crystal_h]

O.o

[Ayu_Jayson]

Maybe when u know something, u dun necessary have to say it, that is if u consider the consequences that follow. If what u say is not gonna improve the situation in this case, perhaps it's better not to say it, just to be considerate to the feelings of those affected, now that is what most of us will do and want others to do.

But since she's an elder (and as a senior who cares), I believe she has no bad intentions of what she's doing. It's really about perception. Change ur perspective and see her words in a different light, then u may understand her true intention. I think she's also risking her name and using her position to say her thoughts (her words carry some weight given her fame in Japan), afterall if she wants to play safe and keep a good reputation, she could just be silent over this matter. So I'm sure she cares for Ayu n Nagase and hopes they are together. Yeah.

There's a Chinese saying of good advice usually isn't pleasant to the ears, just like good medicine is usually bitter to the tongue.

The fact that she takes the extra effort to mind everybody's business I think is because as a respected elder, she takes up the responsibility and task to correct the wrong she sees and gives advice with the intention to make the problem smaller. But of course she is only human, and doesnt have the power to see all angles, inside and outside of the whole situation of every problem (in this case perhaps she doesnt know the actual reason behind the breakup, none of us do) so sometimes her advice isn't the most suitable every time I guess.

I do recall in the CNN interview that Ayu says about wanting to remain as a child and doesnt want to be a grown-up/adult. I'm not sure if that has any bearing on the breakup since marriage is somewhat a responsibility of grown-ups/adults.

In a relationship, no one is really right or wrong, it sometimes works and fits and sometimes it doesnt. It's like a jigsaw puzzle piece. If a jigsaw puzzle piece fits, it fits. Different jigsaw puzzle pieces have different shapes, there are some which u can tell right away it doesn't fit. There're also some that u need time to rotate and check all edges to see if it fits (like each edge of a puzzle piece is each attribute of a person). The time spent on checking if a puzzle pieces fits is the 7 years Ayu spent on the relationship. It is long perhaps of her busy schedule with her work and little time spent with Nagase, yeah thatz my thought.