[News] Wada AKiko commented about ayu's break up issue!

[extepan]

that is simply pure disposable gossip. i dont know who that woman is anyway

Originally Posted by extepan

that is simply pure disposable gossip. i dont know who that woman is anyway

Well all of Japan does. She is practically an institution over there. She is always showing up on every TV show, and she is actually quite nice, I think.

People REALLY need to understand these points:

Popular Japanese TV talk-show format calls for a panel of celebrity guests who sit around at a big table watching news clips and videos of other celebrities. And then they all discuss them. Wada is not coming out of nowhere, as this was the situation.

Wada is 57 years old, and has been around as a singer forever. Her opinion is a big deal in Japan, because of her experience in the industry.

Wada is an old woman, and her comments about Ayu come from that of a grandmother who nags her granddaughter, saying: "You're not getting any younger. You're nearing 30, and it's harder to date and get married when you're in your 30s."

And the fact of the matter IS that Ayu isn't getting any younger. She IS nearing 30. And it IS harder to date and get married when you're in your 30s, because everyone else is already settled down. PLUS throw in the fact that it's very difficult for celebrities to meet and date anyone period.

It is plain to see how it could be impulsive for anyone to throw away a 7 year relationship at Ayu's age. Some people would kill to have that kind of relationship when they're 28.

This is what Wada is pointing out, NOT in a nasty way, and she is absolutely right. Frankly if you disagree, you know little about the way things work.

However, Ayu KNOWS she is impulsive, she KNOWS she is childish, and she did what she felt would make her happiest. Supporting her in that is completely fine. But would you honestly call your own grandmother a "******** b*tch" for showing concern for your suddenly ending a long-term relationship with a good guy? Be realistic, people.

[namiie]

Originally Posted by evolusean

Well all of Japan does. She is practically an institution over there. She is always showing up on every TV show, and she is actually quite nice, I think.

People REALLY need to understand these points:

Popular Japanese TV talk-show format calls for a panel of celebrity guests who sit around at a big table watching news clips and videos of other celebrities. And then they all discuss them. Wada is not coming out of nowhere, as this was the situation.

Wada is 57 years old, and has been around as a singer forever. Her opinion is a big deal in Japan, because of her experience in the industry.

Wada is an old woman, and her comments about Ayu come from that of a grandmother who nags her granddaughter, saying: "You're not getting any younger. You're nearing 30, and it's harder to date and get married when you're in your 30s."

And the fact of the matter IS that Ayu isn't getting any younger. She IS nearing 30. And it IS harder to date and get married when you're in your 30s, because everyone else is already settled down. PLUS throw in the fact that it's very difficult for celebrities to meet and date anyone period.

It is plain to see how it could be impulsive for anyone to throw away a 7 year relationship at Ayu's age. Some people would kill to have that kind of relationship when they're 28.

This is what Wada is pointing out, NOT in a nasty way, and she is absolutely right. Frankly if you disagree, you know little about the way things work.

However, Ayu KNOWS she is impulsive, she KNOWS she is childish, and she did what she felt would make her happiest. Supporting her in that is completely fine. But would you honestly call your own grandmother a "******** b*tch" for showing concern for your suddenly ending a long-term relationship with a good guy? Be realistic, people.

THANK YOU. I also don't get the "She doesn't even know Ayu!!11!1" reactions because seriously...none of us do either.

[tenshi no hane]

Staying in a relationship while you don't love the person anymore is more unfair than breaking up IMO. You would only be keeping up a charade. (sp?)
Ayu is a grown woman that can make her own decisions and frankly it's none of our business what she does in her lovelife and especially not something that should be discussed on TV.

[Raleigh]

Originally Posted by tenshi no hane

Staying in a relationship while you don't love the person anymore is more unfair than breaking up IMO. You would only be keeping up a charade. (sp?)
Ayu is a grown woman that can make her own decisions and frankly it's none of our business what she does in her lovelife and especially not something that should be discussed on TV.

Pretty much. If there is no love left within a relationship it is useless to stay together. They would be wasting each others' time and being false to each other. I don't think anyone would want to be in a relationship with someone and later on find out that their partner actually doesn't love them any longer but they stayed with you because it was "convenient".

Ayumi is not a teenager any longer and she knows what she wants in her life. Also she has proven that she's no idiot. If I was her I wouldn't want anyone to discuss my relationship choices on tv, no matter how respected the person is.