Ayumi's ex-boyfriend Tomoya Nagase is getting married

[SunshineSlayer]

Originally Posted by jon_the_d

the fact that this news has come out right around the time Days has come out is very ...er...incredible.

Poor Ayu...

still, I'm not sure he's a douchebag, sometimes things change, people change, and you can't work it out.

He's moved on, good luck to him, but Ayu is gonna be hit quite hard by this, even if she's moved on too, it's still gonna be hard hitting.

Yeah, I don't get the douchebag comments either. They have been broken up for a year and a half maybe even longer for all we know and all reports at the time pointed to one of the reasons being Tomoya wanting to settle down and Ayu not wanting to.

Also, this news actually came out almost a month ago.

[sanzo2011]

I bet he realizes, she ain’t half the woman Ayu is !

[MissElin_]

Wow, if thats true, then he really moved on fast!
I mean, he and Ayu was together for like 7 years without getting married. And now, like one year and some months later after the break-up hes planning a new wedding. Haha I cant help starting to think about Carrie and Big! He was the same, dated Carrie for years, broke up, married Natasha in no time. Lol. I wonder if the same kind of thought goes through Ayus head too...

[Ayunk]

Aww He dated ayu for like 7 years and didnt get married in the end. And he date this new girl for like only a year and they are getting married soon.

[bluegie]

Originally Posted by Calico

Honestly, different relationships move at different speeds. We can't infer anything from things we don't know about.

And ultimately I just don't care. XD But thanks for the news.

I totally agree with that. I don't see why being so upset about it. If ayu wanted to be with him, they would not have been broken up (unless Tomoya was the one saying "I don't love you anymore and I wanna move out...).

And sometimes (yes sometimes) love is not determined by the time length. Ayu and Tomoya has been together for seven years. However once the love was gone, you either choose to stay in the shell, or to move on. And if he luckily finds another important person in a short time, it doesn't mean he betrays or being mean to ayu.. Fate just knocks the door. That's all.

[lovelism]

Hope Ayu is fine!

[hiroshi_ben]

hope its not a big blow to ayu after she knows about it...

to nagase:

poor you...its your loss for not choosing ayu !

[skydiver4lyfe]

i wonder if the days pv has anything to do with him getting married..aww so sad~

[*Petit*]

ooops ayu... Bad timing with the Days PV LOL.

[kendelle]

I'm glad for him, if this is true.

Originally Posted by SunshineSlayer

Yeah, I don't get the douchebag comments either. They have been broken up for a year and a half maybe even longer for all we know and all reports at the time pointed to one of the reasons being Tomoya wanting to settle down and Ayu not wanting to.

Also, this news actually came out almost a month ago.

Word.

Also, this is from a gossip column and has not been confirmed. *retagging*

[prussian blue]

Originally Posted by xilirationisfun

Well, damn, no wonder the DAYS PV is so emo

LOL my thought too...

ayu cough (At tomoya) soo bad when she's doing the PV

and i'm thinking that tomoya sniffed alot when she is recording the PV

[Arenia]

oh no... *shock*

poor ayu..... T.T
ganbatte ayu!!!!


now i know the meaning of "hidden meaning" that ayu said in TA about PV Days
like the pv, i hope ayu find another " warm love" from her staffs and her fans

[ren0210989]

i didn't know that.
i guess i just don't care i never went to look up any info about him anyways...

if he's getting married, congrads to him
but isn't it kinda fast to get married after only 1 year of dating??

[Handjan]

congrats to tomoya.

Ayu broke up with him more than a year ago, but Days really reminds this situation.
I hope Ayu will meet(or already has met) her true love soon.

[Surreal]

Originally Posted by Calico

Honestly, different relationships move at different speeds. We can't infer anything from things we don't know about.

And ultimately I just don't care. XD But thanks for the news.

Yeah, and keep in mind that marrying Ayu is a crazy task..AVEX! Maybe Ayu doesn't want to get marry too even if Tomoya want too..or vice versa.

[ayu_fantasy]

Aww... ok....

Congrats tomoya.... But hope ayu's fine!!

[yoshino]

ar,. tat's fast.. when he jus broke up with Ayu last yr...

oh.. *speechless*

[Mari-chan]

Wow.... he will marry Aibu Saki very fast. He was 7 Years together with ayu and don't married with her.
But.. well.. I really like Aibu Saki, she is very cute and I loved her in "Zettai Kareshi".

[ImpactBreaker]

Originally Posted by Calico

Honestly, different relationships move at different speeds. We can't infer anything from things we don't know about.

And ultimately I just don't care. XD But thanks for the news.

Exactly! I personally think it's a little too fast because I'm not the marriage kind, but well, if he feels he's ready to go with it, it's his relationship, and i guess circumstances really turned in favor for a marriage here. His relationship with ayu is completely different than the relationship he's having with this girl, diffeent moments and people, so people can't stick a formula to it.


Discussing anothwer point raised in this thread: I disagree about it hitting ayu hard. She has already told that she only has him as a friend now. Plus, it's not like she's been "suffering" so much for him anyway. I'm sure she moved from this and now she just wants him to go his way, and her, hers. Plus, who knows, what if she was the one who decided to break the relationship because she didn't feel anything for him anymore? It's not like she's starving for nagase all over. By the way she said in her messages, it seemed like she had no lover love for him anymore, just friendship.

Originally Posted by sanzo2011

I bet he realizes, she ain’t half the woman Ayu is !

How can you assume that? are you him and have you dated both? Maybe he could be happier with her rather than ayu, maybe no, who knows, but we can't make any assumptions. Ayu is famous, yeah, probably prettier (I haven't seem the other), but a relationship is not only made of a hide. That's up to him to realize whatever he feels like.