ayu's twitter thread ~part 17~

[Suteisi]

Originally Posted by Zeke.

I am only 22 years old, and I am in no hurry to have children. Even when fellow high school classmates have gotten married and many of them having children (during high school and shortly after), it makes me realize I want to live my own life before I begin to center myself around someone else. Maybe when I'm in my mid-30s. But I want to enjoy my youth.

This is what I think exactly.

Also, I don't know much about Ayu's past, but it doesn't seem like she had such a great childhood. Maybe she just doesn't want to put a child through something difficult. Maybe she's worried she won't be a good mom, etc. I've seen TONS of bad parents, working in the mental health industry, and believe me, not every parent is a good parent, and parents can be the worse for their children. Scars and traumatizes them for life. It's horrible.



AAAANNYWAY.

I'm sure nobody in the UK knew when she was going to land, she did not say when she was going to arrive, so how could any body know ??

[~Amy~]

Originally Posted by Suteisi

But... what is Ayu doesn't want kids? EVER?

My sister has decided a long time ago that she would not have kids, and so she's 39 and doesn't have any kids, and she doesn't plan to have any in the future either.

Having kids is not for everyone. It's not because a majority of people have kids that it's something everyone HAS to do.

It's a CHOICE.

I find it kind of disturbing that you think people should have kids as if it's life or death kind of thing....

I totally agree with this post. This is very well said.

Originally Posted by Suteisi

This is what I think exactly.

Also, I don't know much about Ayu's past, but it doesn't seem like she had such a great childhood. Maybe she just doesn't want to put a child through something difficult. Maybe she's worried she won't be a good mom, etc. I've seen TONS of bad parents, working in the mental health industry, and believe me, not every parent is a good parent, and parents can be the worse for their children. Scars and traumatizes them for life. It's horrible.



AAAANNYWAY.

I'm sure nobody in the UK knew when she was going to land, she did not say when she was going to arrive, so how could any body know ??

We'll see, it's up to Ayumi if she wants to have kids or not. I think she's really busy right now. I wonder what she's up to in the UK... Hopefully she get's some rest, she does seem like she's been kind of tired lately. >.<