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[marty]

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Yeah, I agree, the point is how you comment on something.
And, honestly, comments like this one:

Originally Posted by Akutenshi

Wow well it sounds like you've just got it all figured out! Can't wait to buy tickets to YOUR concert instead of Ayu's! Your beautiful shoe choices make me a fan!

seriously piss me off. Like, REALLY. They make me furious. We're not in a kindergarten.
But it's my bad for commenting in a discussion I don't even really care about. I had it coming.

[primavera♥]

Originally Posted by marty

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Yeah, I agree, the point is how you comment on something.
And, honestly, comments like this one:

seriously piss me off. Like, REALLY. They make me furious. We're not in a kindergarten.
But it's my bad for commenting in a discussion I don't even really care about. I had it coming.

Naturally, I understand. It's also just better when your comment doesn't seem to generalize to everyone. If there's only like one or two people being really rude in your eyes. Because then, I will say something.

I think people get more bold with comments when someone seems to imply their opinions are better (on something not technical) because they study and critique x, y, and z. Whether or not they actually mean to....but going off topic here....

Maybe we just need more album info lolol

[happiholic★]

Originally Posted by primavera♥

Naturally, I understand. It's also just better when your comment doesn't seem to generalize to everyone. If there's only like one or two people being really rude in your eyes. Because then, I will say something.

I think people get more bold with comments when someone seems to imply their opinions are better (on something not technical) because they study and critique x, y, and z. Whether or not they actually mean to....but going off topic here....

Maybe we just need more album info lolol

I get what you're saying here, but I only brought up my experience in fashion and stage because people were wrongly accusing me of having nothing better to talk about, or having no experience dancing in various types of shoes. I wasn't trying to sound like an ass, I was explaining my comments. I was trying to explain, I'm not being a hater for no reason. Its something that makes a difference to me, based on my tastes and life experiences. No "disrespect". Then you have people purposely making asshole-ish comments because they misunderstood my reason for explaining. But, really its just sad how hurt some people get that I'm complaining about shoes. Despite that I love Ayu to death and overall, I'm a huuuuuuuuge fan. I'm an ass for not liking her shoes and then explaining why I feel that way. God forbid I complain.

[primavera♥]

Originally Posted by happiholic★

I get what you're saying here, but I only brought up my experience in fashion and stage because people were wrongly accusing me of having nothing better to talk about, or having no experience dancing in various types of shoes. I wasn't trying to sound like an ass, I was explaining my comments. I was trying to explain, I'm not being a hater for no reason. Its something that makes a difference to me, based on my tastes and life experiences. No "disrespect". Then you have people purposely making asshole-ish comments because they misunderstood my reason for explaining. But, really its just sad how hurt some people get that I'm complaining about shoes. Despite that I love Ayu to death and overall, I'm a huuuuuuuuge fan. I'm an ass for not liking her shoes and then explaining why I feel that way. God forbid I complain.

No worries, you can complain all you want. I don't think most people are hurt. Though anyone can comment on complaints still.

But yeah, being rude is never necessary in my world

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So do you guys really think that's the ayu song, I can't hear well.

[happiholic★]

Originally Posted by primavera♥

No worries, you can complain all you want. I don't think most people are hurt. Though anyone can comment on complaints still.

But yeah, being rude is never necessary in my world

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So do you guys really think that's the ayu song, I can't hear well.

Sure any one can comment on my "negative comment" with whatever they want. But, there is a difference between someone saying, "I disagree with your comment about Ayu's shoes and I like them because sensible shoes are really cool to me" and someone saying, "Well, clearly you have nothing else to talk about". One adds something to the conversation, the other doesn't. In my opinion, one is rude. An that brings me back to my point that there is no reason to bait other people or be rude to them for no reason.

[Akutenshi]

Originally Posted by marty

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Yeah, I agree, the point is how you comment on something.
And, honestly, comments like this one:

seriously piss me off. Like, REALLY. They make me furious. We're not in a kindergarten.
But it's my bad for commenting in a discussion I don't even really care about. I had it coming.

I deemed it necessary because the person I was responding to was being condescending towards people whom they disagreed with, acting as if their opinion was holier-than-thou because they "study" this or "have experience" with that. You get what you give out. If they want respect then they should not treat others with such blatant disrespect.

On topic, I really do feel like all of this tension is due to no news. Hopefully some is revealed soon.