Ayu's social networks - Discussion #42

[Aderianu]

[AyuFan2008]

Originally Posted by Louass

This picture is so cute!!
Honestly I can't wait for the day Ayu has children, I'm sure she'll be so happy, she seems like such a nurturing woman (even with her dogs, lol). And Ayu's baby would just be the cutest thing ever, and I normally don't even like kids

It is unlikely she ever will and soon she wont be able too. Ayu may be nurturing but i don't think she is suited to motherhood, she is vert much a career gal and that is perfectly fine.

[Andrenekoi]

^Having or not babies is her choice, but being a career woman doesn't mean she can't have children... My mom is pretty much a career woman and she had 3 children.

[Sandy]

Originally Posted by Andrenekoi

^Having or not babies is her choice, but being a career woman doesn't mean she can't have children... My mom is pretty much a career woman and she had 3 children.

I don't think that's what AyuFan meant, I think she/he meant that career, at the moment and for a very, very long time has been "Ayu's baby". You get my point? Of course women with career's can have children, that's not the discussion here.

These last few photos, love them, especially since with what she must be going through... :/

[BlackSilence]

um has she ever really spoke about wanting to have kids of her own though? Fans keeps bringing that up but i never saw anyone mentioning anything about it said by herself.

[Ryusei]

What does the caption say under her pic from behind?

[Louass]

^ "a.you今日は大切な人の誕生日だった。
日の出頃に起きて、その人に見せたい景色をビデオに収めながら選んだBGMは弟のソロアルバム だった。
考えてみればこの2人は私の人生においての最高の瞬間は勿論、呆れる程どうしようもない瞬間でさえも、それ ぞれの形で真っ直ぐな愛をもって真摯に寄り添い支えて来てくれた2人。
日が暮れて行くのを眺めながら、少し泣きそうになったのと同時に改めて感謝したんだ。
人生まだまだ捨てたもんじゃないよ。
これからも続く私達の未来に乾杯っ🍾"

No idea what that means, so if anyone could translate that'd be great, lol
I LOVE that picture, too! I would rather have that as the cover for A SUMMER BEST, than the ones we got Has she said where she is right now? 'Cause that place is beautiful

Also I literally just said I can't wait for the day she has a happy family of her own. She seems to like children, and I'm sure she'd be an amazing mother. If she chooses to never have children, cool. If she does, then they'll probably be the cutest and luckiest kids. Don't know what the big deal is. Ayu is a human being and deserves to be happy in every way in her life, all I'm doing is hoping she one day has everything she wants out of life, be that with or without children. I swear sometimes it's almost impossible to be a fan of this woman with so many negative people around

[kotora]

Originally Posted by xLuna&1LOVE

That donut is a bit misplaced haha (liked the picture anyway on instagram), but she looks cute in both pictures! Hopefully this beautiful workaholic takes a good rest.

It is just one kind of food with a hole between her legs.

[BlackSilence]

^i actually thought it was a fluffy hairband lol

[pedronekoi]

^ It is. Not a donut lol

Wondering where she is now... Cuz Japan is really cold right now.

[EndOfTheWorld]

Originally Posted by Louass

^ "a.you今日は大切な人の誕生日だった。
日の出頃に起きて、その人に見せたい景色をビデオに収めながら選んだBGMは弟のソロアルバム だった。
考えてみればこの2人は私の人生においての最高の瞬間は勿論、呆れる程どうしようもない瞬間でさえも、それ ぞれの形で真っ直ぐな愛をもって真摯に寄り添い支えて来てくれた2人。
日が暮れて行くのを眺めながら、少し泣きそうになったのと同時に改めて感謝したんだ。
人生まだまだ捨てたもんじゃないよ。
これからも続く私達の未来に乾杯っ🍾"

No idea what that means, so if anyone could translate that'd be great, lol
I LOVE that picture, too! I would rather have that as the cover for A SUMMER BEST, than the ones we got Has she said where she is right now? 'Cause that place is beautiful

Also I literally just said I can't wait for the day she has a happy family of her own. She seems to like children, and I'm sure she'd be an amazing mother. If she chooses to never have children, cool. If she does, then they'll probably be the cutest and luckiest kids. Don't know what the big deal is. Ayu is a human being and deserves to be happy in every way in her life, all I'm doing is hoping she one day has everything she wants out of life, be that with or without children. I swear sometimes it's almost impossible to be a fan of this woman with so many negative people around

I wouldn't worry about it. It's just people taking things way too far. They interpret curiosity regarding how Ayu feels about having children and if she ever will, as fans "expecting" her to have a child because that is her "job" as a female.
I'm curious as well if Ayu has a desire for a family, mostly because I am not sure she has ever mentioned it. But similar to what you said, it's her choice if she wants to and neither choice is bad.

[kotora]

Originally Posted by artcika

^i actually thought it was a fluffy hairband lol

That would be a very thick and big hairband.

It really looks like a donut..

[rainbow_smile]

Originally Posted by artcika

um has she ever really spoke about wanting to have kids of her own though? Fans keeps bringing that up but i never saw anyone mentioning anything about it said by herself.

In fact she mentioned that she's not planning to have children anytime soon. I think it was in a Bea's UP interview soon after she announced she got married.

[Machiko]

Do we really still have to. I hoped this would have died out if I backed out from replying to avoid further arguing but apparently not

Originally Posted by rainbow_smile

In fact she mentioned that she's not planning to have children anytime soon. I think it was in a Bea's UP interview soon after she announced she got married.

Which makes the whole expecting-a-woman-to-have-a-family-because-she's-a-woman even creepier. Saying "can't wait for her to have a family" is pretty straightforwardly assuming that SHE WILL, period, regardless what she herself feels about it. Implying that there's no other choice for her, that the job of a woman is that alone, and it's creepy and personal, WHEN she even has mentioned not planning on having kids. And ya'll keep on discussing about this as if to stir up this into a drama once again, like, give it a rest already. Pretty please. We've told you why, you refuse to listen. Women get constantly pressured into having kids and families and told they're selfish if they choose not to or/and pursue career over family, and this is one way that keeps this crappy culture alive. I don't think this is at all too difficult thing to grasp, but I'm guesing you just don't care.
You might think we're just "taking it too far", being too lazy thinking outside of your own box, but have you actually considered viewing this from our perspective? Without bashing our arguments as "taking too far", "sensitive", "triggered", try to understand where we're coming from?

Sorry, if I'm snappy / rude, but the same song every time and repeating the same arguments that fall on deaf ears is getting so tiring.

Maybe back to the social networks discussions, god please?

[Louass]

^I'd love to know who you're talking to, 'cause if you're talking to/about me, I'd very much appreciate it if you actually quoted or @'ed me directly. I never said I expect her to have a family because she's a woman, I don't think anyone here has said that. Again, literally never said she has no other option, I said if she has kids that's awesome, if she doesn't then cool. I see her looking happy as fuck around children, so can I not hope that if she likes children, that maybe she'll choose to have her own? I never saw that she said she's not planning on having children at the moment, but hell, now I know. And no one's even arguing? But you sure seem excited as hell to come in and put your two cents in when no one asked, lol. I don't need to see anything from anyone else's perspective because I literally said "If she chooses to never have children, cool. If she does, then they'll probably be the cutest and luckiest kids," meaning: Hey, it's her own goddamn choice but I can HOPE that one day she her own family because she deserves all the happiness in the world, Jesus Christ.

And hey, I wasn't an active member here till recently so I was never here for whatever arguments got all you guys' panties in a bunch about a simple-ass subject, so, yeah. I made a comment, I explained where I came from, and continued to talk about the stuff she posts in social media so if anyone need to get over it is everyone that keeps talking about a simple-ass comment I made, lol. Get over it.

Also I totally get I'm being rude af myself now, but when you take words I said but don't have the balls to actually say all of that to me, I'm not gonna feel the need to be respectful or even apologize for being rude. I'm just here to talk about the person I have a ton of love for, and if you're gonna criticize comments I've made that had absolutely no negative connotation. I'm not gonna keep quiet when someone comes for my character, just effin' sayin'.

SOOOOOOOOO does anyone know where is right now? lol

[xLuna&1LOVE]

Damn, well here we go again. The BB talk isn't even cute anymore. And I am so tired of reading those pro-feminist novels, which always end with the same clues. So people, can we just not? Even though both parties have valuable points, you guys will never ever agree with each other, and the drama gets uninteresting. Please, do it for the neutral party. We just want to talk about what kind of donut that is in front of her.

[Louass]

Lol isn't it just a fluffy scrunchie?

[Pieces_of_SEVEN]

Originally Posted by Louass

^I'd love to know who you're talking to, 'cause if you're talking to/about me, I'd very much appreciate it if you actually quoted or @'ed me directly. I never said I expect her to have a family because she's a woman, I don't think anyone here has said that. Again, literally never said she has no other option, I said if she has kids that's awesome, if she doesn't then cool. I see her looking happy as fuck around children, so can I not hope that if she likes children, that maybe she'll choose to have her own? I never saw that she said she's not planning on having children at the moment, but hell, now I know. And no one's even arguing? But you sure seem excited as hell to come in and put your two cents in when no one asked, lol. I don't need to see anything from anyone else's perspective because I literally said "If she chooses to never have children, cool. If she does, then they'll probably be the cutest and luckiest kids," meaning: Hey, it's her own goddamn choice but I can HOPE that one day she her own family because she deserves all the happiness in the world, Jesus Christ.

And hey, I wasn't an active member here till recently so I was never here for whatever arguments got all you guys' panties in a bunch about a simple-ass subject, so, yeah. I made a comment, I explained where I came from, and continued to talk about the stuff she posts in social media so if anyone need to get over it is everyone that keeps talking about a simple-ass comment I made, lol. Get over it.

Also I totally get I'm being rude af myself now, but when you take words I said but don't have the balls to actually say all of that to me, I'm not gonna feel the need to be respectful or even apologize for being rude. I'm just here to talk about the person I have a ton of love for, and if you're gonna criticize comments I've made that had absolutely no negative connotation. I'm not gonna keep quiet when someone comes for my character, just effin' sayin'.

SOOOOOOOOO does anyone know where is right now? lol

LOL maybe it might be time for me to hand my "let a bitch know" reigns over to you

[EndOfTheWorld]

You can't fight it. That's why I'm not responding to it. They just have to make something out of nothing. Any opportunity to spew their feminist rhetoric, they take. It would be a different story if someone here actually believed that the purpose of a woman is to have children, but no one does. Everyone is in the right here but you can't win. It usually gets to the point of bullying as mentioned earlier.
I think we all support Ayu and her decisions.
And to me it looks like a scrunchie/hair tie.

Spoiler:

[koumori]

Originally Posted by xLuna&1LOVE

We just want to talk about what kind of donut that is in front of her.

Truth
Definitely a hair scrunchie. But I am totally open to other donut shaped conspiracies...