Discussion: Ayu Critique

[Mikytaryan]

Originally Posted by KittyKathy

What bothers me is that people who say they don’t like something are immediately described as haters who don't appreciate or support ayu. And this attitude "Why did you come to the forum if you have something bad to say?!" And now I have to choose the words so that I don't hurt anyone's feelings. Lol.

Okay, I'm sorry, but this is ridiculous.

NO ONE said that so stop projecting that on us.

It's not about the WHAT, it's about the HOW! How you convey that opinion.

You are disrespectful, and there is no debating about that. If you cannot see it, then I'm sorry to tell you, but a forum is a place of society. Society requires respect, that's how we evolved, by not hitting ourselves in the head constantly and adapting to simple social norms.

Again, to reiterate what everybody has been saying: No one has been censored! I've been on this forum for 14 years, with different accounts, and not once have I seen someone censoring others. What I did see is people hurting other people, and those that are hurt mentioning they are hurt, and yet the persons that did the hurting couldn't care less.

Maybe a bit of empathy will help us all along the way.

Stating an opinion: OK
Stating that opinion as an absolute truth and thrashing the person along the way: NOT OK